VK GUYS GET MORE QUALITY TIME WITH VN GIRLS

if a guy saves all his vacation and stay in VN for 2 weeks every year, at the very least, and if his VN gf takes her vacation at the same time, that is a total of 336 hours of quality time spent with his lovely, non-nagging, non-whiny, non-demanding VN hottie. an equivalence of 84 dates or 10 months of dating in the States, assuming a date lasts 4 hours on average and they go on 2 dates per week. HOW IS THAT NOT ENOUGH TIME FOR GETTING TO KNOW HIS VN LOVER?!??

everytime VK girls go on dates they spend half of the date circling around shopping malls, restaurants, jewery stores, a tatic frequently employed to extract more gifts and money from VK guys. VN girls cook healthy food for you everyday, do not care where you take them, as long as you take them out, they are happy! gifts are appreciated but never a REQUIREMENT as in the case with VK girls.

VK girls also use their sexual power to extort money from VK guys by CAREFULLY limiting the amount of sex they give to the amount of gift and money they receive in return. to get more sex from them you have to pay more! VN girls will not resort to this dirty tactic, VN girls give you SEX ANYTIME, ANYWHERE, NO QUESTIONS ASKED!!!

Professor car_dude answers VK Guys' relationship questions

random naive, clueless VK guy asks:

"I met this beautiful single mom on VF chat room.
I myself single dad as well. tall / above ave/financial secure.
shes in her thirty.. I known her for several weeks
We chat everynight till 3 am.We went out couple times , everything is so perfect, holding hand, sweet kisses,laughter,I start to falling for this beautiful lady, I brough food and medicine to her job just because i care so much for her for little time knew her. She texted me often that she missed me,
All the sudden , out of the blue, when I texted and called her, she dont answer , so I was worry about her health being,
called her job, she answered and said dont call me at work. and hang up...So Im really confused, did I done or said something wrong? I just want her to tell what went wrong?
she's ignoring me is killing me inside, just want an explaination why this sweet person turned out to be so no so sweet as I though she would be. I know i will move on , but feel that I lost my true love that I have been searching all my life...
Dont guess me wrong, I have dated lot women before but this one is has a special place in my heart..anyone out there has similar situation? give me some input and no immature comments please....."

Prof. car_dude answers:

"let me point out some of the mistakes you have made. and man, you might be tall and decent looking but you sure are a rookie. your lack of experience in dating VK girls is so obviously you have scared all of the women on this site with this post of yours. basically you have totally ruined all your chances with this chic, but here are some newbie lessons you can take home:

1) don't ever talk on the phone with VK girls for more than 5 minutes. the only time you use that phone to talk to them is when you call and ask them out on a date. tell them when and where, then you hang up. you gotta look BUSY like you have better things to do than listening to their PMS induced late night rants. if you talk to them everyday until 3am then they know you have no other chics to talk to - your market value has just plummeted.

2) don't do any gay shit like bringing stuffs to her work. what are you? her assistant? all women want to be banged by guys who are BETTER than them, not unimportant guys who have nothing better to do than taking time off from work and bringing them their tampons. i don't care if you are a janitor at McDonald, if you want to bang VK girls, it should be the other way around: you have important things to do at work, you don't have time to talk to them and THEY are the ones who should bring you your lunch.

3) doesn't sound like you have had sex with her. and you have known her for weeks. that is MAJOR mistake. there is a very concrete rule for dealing with VK girls these days: if she doesn't spread her legs after 3 dates then that's it, you delete her number from your cell phone. if you cant bang her after 3 dates, chances are you will never be able to bang her. stop wasting time and money on her.

4) texting is for pussies. don't do that crap. if she doesn't answer your phone call, you wait 1 or 2 weeks then call her again. in the mean time, go out and hit on other chics. you don't call 2-3 times in a row and then call her at work like a needy idiot. women hate that shit because they don't want to date a desperate guy. stop giving them a reason to dislike you.

5) your "true love"? HAHAHAHAHA you make me laugh which is why i love to response to this lame post of yours. you have known her only for a few weeks, you probably haven't gotten into her pants yet. and you got played by her, apparently. but you say you have a special place for her in your heart? is this the first girl you have ever dated? HAHAHA you are killing me Larry. here is the rule for ALL men when it comes to "true love" if there is even such a thing: don't even think about uttering the word love until you have lived with the girl for 6 months. YEP! SIX MONTHS, that's how long it would take to see the girl for who she really is. men see a hot woman and our tesrosterone shoots up the roof so most of the time we'll think that's "love" but in fact that's just your natural desires to mate with her.

6) but your biggest mistake is falling for a VK girl, even worse, a single VK mom. you never want to fall in love with VK girls because the moment they know you have feelings for them, they'll start taking advantage of you financially, IMMEDIATELY. as mentioned numerous times in my guides, VK girls are only good for sex and nothing else, regardless of how good the sex is. the moment you think you have developed feelings for a VK girl you bang her for the last time, just for for some memory hehe, then you head for that door, you run and never look back. they are not marriage materials. you only use them for one night stands, booty calls, and hit-n-runs. marry a VN girl if you want a REAL wife, but if think you are all that and you can afford to burn some money then fine, go all the way and get a White girl. but VK girls have ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO OFFER YOU in compared to White girls and VN girls."

WHY MEN SHOULD STAY AWAY FROM SINGLE MOMS

NEVER touch single moms. the fact that they are single moms speak volumes about their ability to be a good wife, or lack thereof. if a woman is a single mom, it's usually one of these situations:

a) like most VK girls, she married her ex-husband for money then filed for divorce after a few years, taking half of his money. and now she's looking for the next sucker to victimize (YOU). she will NO DOUBT do this to you, as soon as she finds someone who makes more money. when you marry or even spend your money on these women, you are betraying your fellow men because if no one dates or marries single moms, a lot of them would not have filed for divorced. they file for divorce so they can be free to find the next sucker and get half of his money, if there are no suckers waiting to date/marry them, they'll definitely think twice about filing for a divorce. by dating/marrying single moms, you are helping, encouraging the gold-miners to leave their husbands.

b) she is dumb slut and got knocked up by players as early as they were in high school . these girls are really dumb and trashy and you don't want to marry. plus, the father(s) of her kid(s) are probably dead beats so that means no child support from them. in other words, YOU will be paying for her kids' living expenses until they are 18. great huh?

c) she married the wrong guy. getting married was the biggest decision she has ever made in her life and she chose the wrong guy. she changed her mind after the wedding. what makes you think she will choose the right guy this time?

d) her husband left her because she cheated on him, she nagged too much, she whined non-stop, she complained about everything, nothing could ever please her, she's a bitch. whatever the reason is, you don't want to be her next victim.

but there is more. if you have interactions with her kids, she can later sue you in civil courts for child support, even when you don't marry her and you are not the biological father of her kids. search the net for many court cases like these if you don't believe me. if you act like a "father figure" to her kids for a period of time, (such as buying them gifts, sending them post cards, taking them out to dinner, etc.), and their biological father cannot pay for child support for some reason, (in prison, dead, unemployed, etc.), the judge can order you to pay for child support until the kids turn 18. under the U.S court system, the kids come first, then her, then her pets and then you.

when you date with single moms, you are playing with fire. these women have a PROVEN records of being losers/gold-diggers and you don't want to have anything to do with these.

when it comes to single moms, bang them once or twice then RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN.

VK GIRLS ASPIRE TO BECOME GOLD-DIGGERS, CROOKS, SCAMMERS AND WHORES

VN girls are taught to be feminine, loving, classy, compassionate and adorable - the very qualities most men seek in a woman. all men want to marry a woman he can love and respect until throughout the course of the marriage - someone who can also be a role model for his children. VN girls are perfect in every of these aspects. you will NEVER find a better woman to be the mother of your children than a VN girl.

VK girls on the other hand, are falling short in each and every one of these departments. while VN girls idolize their parents, who are well-respected, honest, hard-working people, VK girls idolize the feminists, the gold-miners, the whores, the crooks and the scammers of the Western world.

Angry, bitter, man-hating feminists like Ophra and Ellen (The) Degenerate would not have been as rich and famous as they are today without the money and support of US women including VK girls. These feminists primarily preach one thing: men are the cause of all the problems in a woman's life. their nationally televised shows often portray men in a negative light: men are women beaters, insensitive, immature, non-communicative, afraid of commitments (another way of saying "afraid of getting scammed for half of their money"), egotistical blah blah blah. according to them, every time a relationship ends, the man is at fault. if a man cheats, he's a dog but if a woman cheats, it's only because she feels trapped, unappreciated, emotionally neglected, blah blah blah. no man can ever win with these feminists.

not only will these ridiculously damaging messages cause VK girls to hate men in general but they also give VK girls a reason to justify their gold-digging behaviors: they believe that men deserve to be scammed and financially screwed in and out of divorce courts.

VK girls grow up idolizing the most successful gold-miners this country has ever seen. in VN, people like Anna Nicole Smith would be condemned to an eternal fire in Hell but she is a celebrity in this country. while US men frown upon her, US women adore her and give her all the publicity she needs to become one of the most famous celebrities in the world. it is one of VK girls' wildest dreams to grow up and become and a successful gold-miner like Smith.

without the love and support of VK girls and other US girls, whores in this country would not have been so welcomed by the American pop culture. while Vietnamese women (women in VN) loathe people like Jenny McCarthy and Tila Nguyen, who are technically whores, US women want to them a TV show. They love these whores so much they want to see watch them every night on TV with their kids.

and then there is anti-men divorce court system in this country, a system lobbied for by the evil, ball-eating feminists that makes damn sure that every man that comes out of a divorce is financially ruined and left with a bitter taste in the mouth for many years to come. to put it in away that newcomers in this country will understand the true nature of the US divorce court system: under this system, women don't get half of everything, they get A LOT MORE than half, even when they never made a dime in their entire life. this is the main reason why the divorce rate in this country is the highest in the world (at 60%) and the reason why most divorces in this country were filed by women: women have everything to gain in a divorce while men have everything to lose. this motivates VK girls to file for divorce every chance they get. this is system is the result of many years of lobbying by the crooks the scammers we refer to as feminists. of course, VK girls love this system to death. many VK girls might not be able to write a single coherent sentence in English but you can bet your house on the fact that ALL of them have already known everything there is to know about divorce settlements.

at the end of the day, the last thing a man needs is a loud-mouthed, nagging, whiny, complaining, demanding, gold-digging mega-bi.tch waiting at home to to rob him of his peace and dignity. marry a VK girl if you want that life. and there is a very good chance that your daughter will grow up to be a foul-mouthed gold digger some day or even worse you may even see her in her short skirts walking up and down Sunset Blvd greeting her customers.

or you can marry a VN girl and avoid those nightmares altogether.

Why VK girls LOVE to be treated like dirt!

Today we are going to understand why so many VK girls like to date abusive jerks. Nobody in their right mind would want to be used, abused and treated like crap. But at the same time, why do we see so many attractive US women (VK girls included) with guys who do nothing but make their life miserable?

If any of you has ever read the posts in Serious Love Problems, about half of the time, you’ll see it’s the VK women crying about being mistreated by their guys. It doesn’t matter what these guys do, call them names, beat them, slap them, empty their bank accounts, sleep with their female friends, these girls won’t leave. We know they have no intention of leaving these guys because if they do, then their nightmares would have been over, and they wouldn’t have needed to whine non-stop about their problems on the forums. The reason they post their problems here is because, simply, they TRY to make these abusive relationships work! Yes, as ridiculous as that sounds, they are HOPING to change these men, thinking these assholes will eventually turn into charming princes, while deep down inside, they know these guys won’t change as no one ever does. Crazy doesn’t it? But that’s VK women for you. They are crazy!!! These jerks are the unfinished
“projects” they are working on.

So what makes VK girls go crazy for these guys?

The short answer is this: people ALWAYS want what they don’t have or can’t have. Remember the first time you drove your new car? Remember the excitement, the rush when you pushed that gas pedal for the first time? PRICELESS. But 22 monthly payments later, what did it feel like? Just like another car, by this time, you probably have another car in mind, or you are waiting for the next model to come out. You only want the car you DON’T already have.

This is the same reason why the actor Huge Grant was caught buying an ugly black hooker on Sunset Blvd many years ago when he had the beautiful Elizabeth Hurly at home. I don’t have to convince you guys of this point: we men ALWAYS want to get in the pants of the women we don’t already have. Whether we act on that desire or not is a different story. But I’m sure everyone can agree that it’s always about the “fresh meat.”

US women, VK girls included, are the same: they want the men they don’t have or can’t have; the jerks, the dicks and the assholes. Why? Because the majority of the guys in this country are nice, civilized, caring, sensitive, blah blah blah. That’s how guys in America are raised. And that’s also why they say “American men make the best husbands.” These “nice guys,” who are supposed to finish last, are EVERYWHERE in this country. VK girls KNOW they can get a nice guy anytime they want so they don’t care for these wussies. In the minds of VK girls, these suckers are boring, not special because they are available 24/7 and they cater to their every single need. In other words, VK girls ALREADY have these nice guys in their pockets so they want someone else: the jerks, the dicks and the assholes. These are the guys they can’t tame, can’t bring home to their parents, can’t be married to. VK girls can never have these guys as husbands and
that’s why they find it exciting, thrilling and daring to date these guys. It makes them feel alive! This is the same reason why many married people find cheating so appealing; because forbidden fruits are always the sweetest!

So after many years of being used and abused by jerks, dicks and assholes, eventually one day, VK girls wake up and find themselves almost over the hill. As their bio clock ticks, they begin their search for a “nice” guy to get married. Be clear of one thing: it’s not because they suddenly find nice guys attractive but it’s because they can take advantage of a nice guy better in a marriage; nice guys are much easier to manipulate and generally have more money saved up.

Needless to say, by now, after years of use and abuse by the jerks, the dicks and the assholes, VK girls are HEAVILY damaged and they carry an excess of emotional baggage and in many cases, non-emotional baggage (kids born out of wedlock that had been fathered by the jerks, the dicks and the assholes). Imagine a high mileage Chrysler that has been rented to almost every dead beat loser in town and you’ll get the picture of a VK girl at this stage: extreme wear and tear with very little gas left in the tank.

Would these women make good wives considering they have been used, abused for years by the jerks, the dicks, the assholes, the players, the cheaters, the womanizers? Would you be able to take care of their bastard kids? Would they refrain from taking their pent up anger and frustrations out on you - the one who rescued them from these abusive relationships? Would you be able to handle the STDs they had gathered over the years? And most importantly, would you want these SCREWED UPS to be the mother of your children? These are the questions you must ask yourself if you ever consider marrying a typical VK girl. Just look around you, pretty girls in high school get knocked up by gangsters al the time. Orange County is FULL of single moms who have never been married. Tens of thousands of women in this country write to serial killers in prison every day. A girl getting a tattoo on her ass is considered “cool.” Thousands of girls flash their boobs at frat
parties every week…. Or one can just look at the posts in Serious Love Problem and realize one thing: VK girls, like most women in this country, are attracted to the jerks, the dicks and the assholes.

In conclusion, if you want to bang young VK chics (18-28), just treat them like dirt and they’ll keep spreading their legs for you. Trust me, they LOVE it.

Professor car_dude answers VK girls relationship questions (part II)

random shameless VK girl's response:
"first i would like to thank you all for your response whether bad or good.
for those who are quick to judge me as a prostitute or gold digger. so let me clarity myself. first of all i had a job but i got layoff, i didn't sit my fat ass like a potatoe couch waiting for his support. second i know it's wrong to remain with him when i plan to leave him; with that said it doesn't mean that i don't love him. i'm just tired of not being respected. he max out my banking account playing poker online, yells at me whenever he feels like, talk to girls online. so what am i suppose to do? i have nothing left. i have no family or friends to turn to? where am i to go? live on the street? why should I?
for the past 7 year i have forgave him numerous time for all his mistake, but he still doesn't appreciates it.
is it wrong for me just to want him to say happy birthday? or rather him not making me feel miserable on my day? is that too much to asked for.
and for those who say bd is not that important. don't tell me you don't feel bad if your loves one doesn't remember it.
it's the lonely feeling that i get . it's not about gift or party or any of the materialistic stuff."


professor car_dude's answer:
"wait a minute, since when it is OK to be a gold digger if you are out of money? what's next? people have the rights to rob and kill when they are out a job/money too? i'm glad this country is not wholly run by selfish, self-centered VK girls like you.

beside, complaining about being broke will NOT gain you any sympathy in this country. this is America, the land of equal opportunities. everyone is given every possible opportunities to succeed. if 40+ year old Vietnamese immigrants with no English could succeed in this country, anybody could. medicaid, food stamps, college loans, financial aids, life insurance, car insurance, health insurance, cancer insurance, disability insurance, and even bankruptcy laws etc. ALL THESE THINGS WERE DESIGNED TO PREVENT YOU FROM LIVING IN THE STREETS. so if you are out of money, it must mean you are really screwed up and you have NO ONE to blame but yourself.

this is precisely why Americans would donate tons of money to Haiti but never a dime to homeless bums living under the freeways; they have ZERO sympathy for lazy people who CHOSE to be broke.

yes it is too much to expect a happy birthday wish from him if what he is trying to do is getting rid of you. my intuitions tell me that he's at this stage where he's just so sick of you and wish you would pack and leave without causing more drama for him - something you create everyday, am i right? how do i know your situation so well? i have been there; i was stuck with a very thick-skinned and shameless VK girl for months. she wouldn't move out regardless of my countless attempts at hinting, encouraging her to leave. i even told her straight out "GET THE F OUT" but she wouldn't.

so one day i was at work, she called me at work and started drama again. i said OK lets meet me at my work. while she was driving to my work, i drove home, took all her stuffs and throw them in front of the door then changed the lock. never saw her again after that day.

my advice: either you shut up and bite the bullet or just pack and leave. but if you insist on being a bi.tch and whine and nag and demand respect and attention everyday when the guy don't already want to give you any, then expect your ass to be "removed" from the house like one of my shameless ex-gf's...hahahhahah...every time i remember this story i laugh so freaking hard. "

COMMON SCAMS COMMITTED BY VK GIRLS

The followings are various types of scams and that have been committed by VK girls over the years.


1) THE NO SEX SCAM

SCAM TYPE:
Bait-And-Switch/Extortion

TARGETED VICTIMS:
employed, unsuspecting VK males

LIKELY OFFENDERS:
VK girls with some sex appeal. typically those who are not yet over the hill. some of them are in a rush to cash in their checks before the expiration dates come.

DESCRIPTION OF THE SCAM:
the sex was great when you first met her but once she has moved into your house/become married to you/given birth to a child, it suddenly went downhill. this is called BAIT-AND-SWITCH.

your girl's "uncooperative" attitude in the bedroom speaks volumes about her interest level for you: ZERO. i'm going to be as subtle as possible: how many calories do you think it would take a woman to please her wanting man each time? it's MUCH less than waking up in the middle of the night to take a piss. why? all she has to do is lay in bed with her legs spread for 5 minutes. now tell me is that too much to ask?. it is a fact that women love sex almost as much as men do. but even if the wife has no interest in sex (due to house chores, babies, stress, etc.) would it be TOO MUCH to ask if she could lay there for just 5 minutes, knowing how important sex is to her husband's happiness and well-being? she clearly doesn't care about you. not even a little bit.

all women know how much men like sex so when they intentionally DEPRIVE their men of it, they clearly want their men to suffer.

VK girls use sex as a BARGAINING tool. VK women spend all their lives studying the art of manipulating men using their sexual power. they carefully control the amount of sex you receive based on the amount of money, gifts, attention and other intangible benefits they receive from you. the more of these things they receive, the more sex you are given. this is called EXTORTION. by doing this they take advantages of all the things a marriage has to offer to the max. they try to milk the cow as much as they can while they still can.

PREVENTIVE MEASURES:
a) do not marry a VK girl because once the fish has taken the bait, the sex is immediately reduced/cut off.
b) do not allow your VK gf to move in. give her the impression that you'll eventually allow her to move in and enjoy the free rent and free utilities one day, so she'll try harder to please you in bed but don't ever do it. once she's moved in, the sexual deprivation process will begin and it's very hard to get her out of the house.
c) dump your VK gf the moment she starts making demands for her sexual services. the best times for breaking up are right before the holidays so you save even MORE money by not having to buy her gifts and take her relatives out to dinner.
d) if you find yourself at the end of the rope and have other choices but to settle for a VK girl, then make sure you have a prenuptial agreement that requires her to have sex with you AT LEAST 3 TIMES A WEEK.

FUNDAMENTAL DIFFERENCES BETWEEN VN GIRLS AND VK GIRLS

most VN girls are honest, hard-working women. they grew up in an agriculture country; therefore they believe in hard work and an honest living. they are taught to work hard to earn things in life, not to sell their bodies for security.

VK girls grew up in a capitalist country where not only it is a norm for women to sell their bodies for money but the women are also encouraged to do so. this is a country that celebrates and glorifies hookers (tila Nguyen, Jenny McCarthy, etc.). pornography, strip joints and in some places, even prostitution are legal. every US woman (VK girls included) try to make the best out of their bodies before they go over the hill.

i believe that as long as the guy is not 100% stupid and marrying girls he finds at the VN brothel houses, he'll find a lovely and loyal VN girl. however, if he decides to marry here, expect to settle a gold-miner because that's what most VK girls in this country are.

CAR_DUDE ANSWERS VK GIRLS' RELATIONSHIP QUESTIONS (PART I)

Money Hungry VK girl #1 asks:

"Ladies what would you do if bf forget your bd for the 7th times?
i don't know why but seem to me like no one remember my bd, not even my mom whom give birth to me. she would remind me a fews day ahead but when the day actually come she never say anything not even chuc con sinh nhat vui ve. Almost every year something bad happen on my bd. i either gets yell at by my mom or get into an argument with my bf. Like yesterday my bf and i didn't talk. i don't even know why, just woke up in the morning and he gets angry at me for no reason and wouldn't talk to me the whole day. so i ended up spending my bd alone, again for the 7th time.
i plan to leave him but i don't have any money in my hand right now. i'd just found a job and plan to save enough money to rent a place of my own then i'll leave him. as for now i'll just have to stick with him. i don't know if i'm wrong for doing that but i don't feel like he love me at all. sometime i feel like i'm just there to please him. when he's happy i feel safe but when he's mad, he makes me feel bad, useless for not working, useless for not being anything."


Professor CAR_DUDE answers:

"this one of those questions that i'd love to respond to as it greatly reflects the situations that MOST VK girls often find themselves in: their boyfriends/husbands don't appreciate/respect them.

my assessment of the situation is that you don't want to be with him but you stay because you want free rent, free meals, free clothes, etc. and your boyfriend keeps you around for just for sex (because he doesn't love you it seems) and hopefully, some house chores.

your bf give you security and in return, you give him sex. sounds like a fair deal, or does it?

first off, as mentioned numerous times, this is just another form of prostitution. the only difference between your relationship and some guy hiring a hooker is that the former is legal while the second isn't. as you know, VK girls are very well versed in the art of gold-digging so most of them (you included) have been taking advantage of this "loophole" in the laws to the fullest.

now that we have clearly established the real nature of your relationship: a legalized form of prostitution, lets move on to the next issue: your demands of respect, love & affection. you want him to remember your birthday, treat you with better respect and so forth. here's the thing, these are the things you can never demand from a man - a concept VK girls have extreme difficulties in understanding. you can't FORCE a person to give you the kind of love and respect they are not willing to give; no amount of asking, demanding, manipulating, sex withholding and alligator tears is going to get you these things. (these things may work if what you want is money, though. but as a VK girl, you probably know that already).

moreover, i want you to think about this: would a hooker expect the customer to remember her birthday? NO. it would be absurd, wouldn't it. also, would a hooker have any rights to demand love or affection from her customer? no way. that would only make people laugh.

BUT THAT'S WHAT YOU ARE ASKING YOUR BF TO DO!!

he won't do it, he can't do it and he'll never want to do it. the moment you moved in and began taking advantage of him financially, knowing quite well you don't love him, was the moment he lost all respect for you - forget love & affection.

if one ever finds themselves faced with this problem in their dating life, the only solution is to pack and leave. but this is your dilemma: you are not willing to leave because, like most VK girls, while often claiming "INDEPENDENT", you want to dig this gold mine. it is in VK girls' nature to dig, dig and dig. so i don't exactly have a solution to your problem: you want to continue taking advantage of this poor guy like crow ravaging a dead carcass but you want him to love & respect you at the same time? quite an outrageous demand.

if anyone has problems comprehending what i'm writing, just picture VK girls as parasites, they just want to find a rich, healthy host and start sucking it dry - slowly killing it physically and emotionally from the inside. then one day, when the unfortunate victim dies a painful, agonizing death, the cold-blooded, shameless parasites begin leaving the dead host and start the search for their new victims. and life continues..."

VK GIRLS LOVE TO DATE MANY GUYS AT ONCE

it's a known fact that most VK girls try to "date" many guys at the same time to maximize their income. usually VK girl would never let her guys know about the other guys because she wants them to think they are the only men in her life. however, sometimes they break this rule because they want the men to compete for her "love" and attention, thus spending more money on them. whenever there is a competition, people work and try harder because they know they have to compete against other prospective lovers. needless to say, this results in more gifts, more free meals and free vacations for VK girls.

it sounds like the two guys you are dating have been around the block so they know what to expect from VK girls: you girls are not marriage materials and only good for sex. therefore, they don't expect you to enter to an exclusive relationship. moreover, they probably knew that even if they asked you to be exclusive you would pretend to agree to it then go screw someone else behind their backs anyways so they never bothered.

of course there are also some VK girls who do it for sexual satisfactions but they are a minority as the dollar sign is more important to VK girls than anything in the world. it has been said that throwing a stack of $100 bills on the table can cause most VK girls to have a spontaneous, involuntary orgasm that completely shuts down their brains for a good 15 minutes.