Tila Nguyen showed up at a concert just to be thrown beer bottles, rocks and feces at her by the concertgoers. now i don't condone violence of any kinds and i don't believe that she deserves all the cuts and bruises from this incident but you've got to admit; the throwing of feces at her is funny as hell.
a quote from TMZ:
"Cabana says the ordeal lasted about 15 minutes. A security guard told him someone had a watermelon that had been fermenting in urine and feces for two days and that they had been saving it all weekend for Tila."
muahhahahahhaa i couldn't help but laugh my ass off when i saw this news on TMZ. for years VK girls have been WORSHIPING this hoe like the Catholics worshiping the Pope. and it's not hard to see why; they have no one else to be "proud" of. NOBODY!
while VK men have worked hard and earned a good name for ourselves in the Western world with men like Cung Le (MMA middle weight champion), Scott Nguyen (world renown Poker player), Dat Pham (#1 place Last Comic Standing), Eugene Trinh (American Astronaut who has gone to space), Joseph Cao (House of Representatives), VK girls have chosen a different path to success: selling their bodies for money.
i remember calling out this hoe Tila Nguyen in the past just to get slammed by VK girls who accused me of being "jealous" and "hateful" because according to them, "i could never make the kind of money that she made blah blah blah..."
as i have said in one of my previous blogs, VK girls #1 priority in life is money. they'll do anything to get it even if it bring them, their family and the Viet race shame. as you all know, the number of hoe's in the U.S is at an all time high. since sex sells in this country, instead of working 40 hours a week like most people, many women have decided to spread their legs for a couple hours a week to make an easy living. sadly, VK too, have chosen this path for fame and fortune and guys who speak out against them are automatically labeled "jealous," "oppressors," "male chauvinists," "insecure males who are afraid of independent women" etc.
everyday, tons of VK girls are following these hoe's through Twitter, Facebook, MySpace and their stupid blogs to imitate every moves they make, every antics they do for some attention. they ASPIRE to become successful hoe's like Tila Nguyen. a VF members, who is married with a bunch of kids, once posted a picture of her flat naked butt to illustrate this point. she wanted the kind of attention Tila Nguyen has gotten so bad she's willing to do just about ANYTHING to get it.
when you look at the early history of VN, you'll see that VN women have been held in high regards with the Trung Sisters and Lady Trieu who led the two earliest uprisings against the Chinese. then you look at the VK women today and you can't help but ask what the heck has happened to the VK women?
SHAME I TELL YOU. SHAME!!!!!!
Monday, August 16, 2010
Tuesday, August 10, 2010
THINGS TO KEEP IN MIND WHEN DATING AN OC CHICK
nuot mam o OC dang len gia du lam.
OC girls are very competitive, here are some of the things a VK guy needs to keep in mind when dating a decent looking VK girl from OC.
1) your car must be at least 1.5 times more expensive than her car. for example, if she drives a $40K Benz, you must drive a $60K BMW or something of the same value.
2) no coffee on first date (she'll think you are cheap). if you ask her, don't be surprised if the answer is seafood.
3) expect to spend the beginning of the second date at a shopping mall, especially if she had given you sex on the first date :) she'll drag you into one of the stores, pick out a $300 dress and say she's forgotten her credit card at home. in fact, avoid going shopping with OC girls at all costs, they can never remember to bring their credit cards for one reason or another!!
4) clubbing with her means clubbing with her and 5 of her single female friends, meaning, you'll pay for their tickets, a VIP table, a few bottles. 7 tickets: $280. VIP table: $500-$2000 if you don't pass this "test," forget second date. but don't think she'll bring attractive friends along for you to crab, she'll usually bring fat and fugly friends to make her look like a star :) this is also an opportunity for her fat & fugly friends to get any action, something they haven't had for a long time hahaha. also don't be surprised if they, your girl included, run off to crab other guys once you have paid for their tickets.
5) don't even think about asking her to marry you unless you can afford a diamond ring that costs 3 times the amount of your monthly salary.
6) if she asks you if you think her breasts are small, say no. be careful, she's trying to manipulate you into paying for her boob job.
7) they tend to talk about their financial problems after having sex with you. she's short on rent, her car needs a new engine, she can't afford an ass lift, etc.
to be continued...
OC girls are very competitive, here are some of the things a VK guy needs to keep in mind when dating a decent looking VK girl from OC.
1) your car must be at least 1.5 times more expensive than her car. for example, if she drives a $40K Benz, you must drive a $60K BMW or something of the same value.
2) no coffee on first date (she'll think you are cheap). if you ask her, don't be surprised if the answer is seafood.
3) expect to spend the beginning of the second date at a shopping mall, especially if she had given you sex on the first date :) she'll drag you into one of the stores, pick out a $300 dress and say she's forgotten her credit card at home. in fact, avoid going shopping with OC girls at all costs, they can never remember to bring their credit cards for one reason or another!!
4) clubbing with her means clubbing with her and 5 of her single female friends, meaning, you'll pay for their tickets, a VIP table, a few bottles. 7 tickets: $280. VIP table: $500-$2000 if you don't pass this "test," forget second date. but don't think she'll bring attractive friends along for you to crab, she'll usually bring fat and fugly friends to make her look like a star :) this is also an opportunity for her fat & fugly friends to get any action, something they haven't had for a long time hahaha. also don't be surprised if they, your girl included, run off to crab other guys once you have paid for their tickets.
5) don't even think about asking her to marry you unless you can afford a diamond ring that costs 3 times the amount of your monthly salary.
6) if she asks you if you think her breasts are small, say no. be careful, she's trying to manipulate you into paying for her boob job.
7) they tend to talk about their financial problems after having sex with you. she's short on rent, her car needs a new engine, she can't afford an ass lift, etc.
to be continued...
VK GIRLS AND THEIR WOMANESE
surprisingly honest VK girl asks:
[QUOTE=T_Mai_P]Em là con 1, ba má em có cuộc sống trên trung bình, bản thân em cũng làm ra tiền - $65K/năm
Bạn trai em cũng có bằng college như em nhưng him only makes $45K/năm . Ba má anh ấy nghèo - sống vào SSI . (Mấy chuyện tiền bạc về him và his parents, em cũng mới biết đây thôi .
Câu hỏi em là em có nên break up với him không ? Nếu em tiếp tục với him, liệu em có sống hạnh phúc khi tài chánh giữa nhà em và nhà anh có sự cách biệt ? Anh chị nào có kinh nghiệm xin chia sẻ .
T_Mai_P[/QUOTE]
i appreciate T_Mai_P coming in here and telling everyone what's on her mind. it's not easy to find a VK girl who is honest with others about her true intentions and motives in her relationships.
when VK girls say "i love the way you live your life," what they actually mean is "i love your 5 bedroom house, your $100k sport car, and your yacht"
when VK girls say "i like guys who have ambitions," what they actually mean is "i like rich guys"
when VK girls say "i'm a classy woman," what they actually mean is "i demand expensive things from men"
when VK girls say "i love you for who you are," what they actually mean is "i love you for who you are, as long as you have money"
when VK girls say "i have standards," what they actually mean is "i'm high maintenance"
when VK girls ask "you have a way with words, you must be a writer," what they actually mean is "what do you do for a living ? i want to know how much money you make"
etc, etc.
as you can see, to fully understand the type of womenese VK girls speak, you may have to take linguistics course. what they say and what they mean are two different things, and usually they'll go at great length to conceal their true intentions: finding out how much money you have and figuring out if it's enough to justify her spending 5 of her younger, fertile years on you :) but anyways, back to the point.
i like how T_Mai_P tells everyone what's on her mind without hiding it; she only cares about money when it comes to relationships. most VK girls are not as straight forward so i have to say i appreciate her honesty.
[QUOTE=T_Mai_P]Em là con 1, ba má em có cuộc sống trên trung bình, bản thân em cũng làm ra tiền - $65K/năm
Bạn trai em cũng có bằng college như em nhưng him only makes $45K/năm . Ba má anh ấy nghèo - sống vào SSI . (Mấy chuyện tiền bạc về him và his parents, em cũng mới biết đây thôi .
Câu hỏi em là em có nên break up với him không ? Nếu em tiếp tục với him, liệu em có sống hạnh phúc khi tài chánh giữa nhà em và nhà anh có sự cách biệt ? Anh chị nào có kinh nghiệm xin chia sẻ .
T_Mai_P[/QUOTE]
i appreciate T_Mai_P coming in here and telling everyone what's on her mind. it's not easy to find a VK girl who is honest with others about her true intentions and motives in her relationships.
when VK girls say "i love the way you live your life," what they actually mean is "i love your 5 bedroom house, your $100k sport car, and your yacht"
when VK girls say "i like guys who have ambitions," what they actually mean is "i like rich guys"
when VK girls say "i'm a classy woman," what they actually mean is "i demand expensive things from men"
when VK girls say "i love you for who you are," what they actually mean is "i love you for who you are, as long as you have money"
when VK girls say "i have standards," what they actually mean is "i'm high maintenance"
when VK girls ask "you have a way with words, you must be a writer," what they actually mean is "what do you do for a living ? i want to know how much money you make"
etc, etc.
as you can see, to fully understand the type of womenese VK girls speak, you may have to take linguistics course. what they say and what they mean are two different things, and usually they'll go at great length to conceal their true intentions: finding out how much money you have and figuring out if it's enough to justify her spending 5 of her younger, fertile years on you :) but anyways, back to the point.
i like how T_Mai_P tells everyone what's on her mind without hiding it; she only cares about money when it comes to relationships. most VK girls are not as straight forward so i have to say i appreciate her honesty.
Friday, August 6, 2010
THE PROFESSOR ADDRESSES VK GUY'S CONCERNS (CONT.)
Quote :
Originally Posted by CockPuncher
Just so you know where I'm coming from: we're a couple of guys growing up in the states, age 24 - 28. Due to school and work, we kind of got separated along the way.
My friend has a engineering degree, working for a pretty high-end computer brand, pretty successful at his job, rising steadily towards middle management. He dates exclusively VK girls. He's never been to VN.
first thing first, it doesn't matter who you marry, as long as you make decent money (like your friend) ALWAYS get a pre-nup. the moment gold diggers hear the word pre-nup they'll run before your jaw can drop to the floor. yep they will scream and yell and call you by all the names and start all the nasty rumors about you but you will be glad you did it many years down the road. in this country, men get butchered in the divorce court system, so you can never be too careful.
i would suggest your friend to take a trip to VN before settling down with anyone in the States. but stay away from city girls who frequent the clubs and bia om etc. find someone with a decent job and a good background. he'll see a complete different group of women there - compassionate, affectionate, loyal, non-materialistic to name a few.
Quote :
Originally Posted by CockPuncher
I don't have any experience in a relationship with a VK or VN girl since in my line of work I don't meet a lot of Viet girls. I've been to VN a couple of times.
like i said, White girls are ok, if you can find an attractive one that messed up in the head. and my other choice would be VN girls - your best best all things being equal.
think of it like shopping for a car:
White girl is like a BMW, fun to drive and cost $55K. not reliable and you have to get rid of it after the extended warranty is up. but you get what you paid for.
VN girl is the best bargain. think of a brand new, reliable Lexus with all the gadgets you need and want for only $5K. best bang for your buck.
VK girl is like the used and overpriced Toyota Corolla that costs $50K. worst choice.
Quote :
Originally Posted by CockPuncher
What do you think about this comment he made:
When you date a Viet girl here in the US, you have to be gallant and spoil them, because that's the game Viet guys here play. If you don't play the game, you'll get owned. That is why you see cute girls with below-average looking guy, because he spoils her and revolve his life around her.
yep VK guys are partly responsible for the way VK girls are today. if they stop showering these women with money and attention, their market values would go down. even average or below average looking VK girl in this country get plenty of attention because there is a shortage of Viet women in the States. most of the boat people were males.
1) 60% of women in this country are OBESE. that's not fat, that's beyond fat.
2) a lot of millionaires in this country and take most the pretty women.
there are a lot more beautiful Viet girls in VN. for ANY given guy, the women he attracts in VN is A LOT younger and hotter than the ones he does in the States. so regardless of the sky-rocketed divorce rate in the States, it's a no brainer which is a better choice.
quick and simple rule: if you make enough money to buy a a house on your own, VN girls are a much better choice
Quote :
Originally Posted by CockPuncher
Công (craft): VN girls win hands down. They woulld make breakfast for their parents, go to work, and when they go home they would do house chores. I swear, I look at the husbands there who only go to coffee shops in the morning, nhau at night...and I think about my azz doing everything in the house, I freaking wanna stand outside with a sign that says: 'Trai can vo'. I swear, none of the girls my friend dated showed any sign of domestic capabilities.
agreed. VN girls are taught to stick with their husbands and take care of them. think of unconditional love. now, i myself dont' want take advantage of any woman's good heart. but the fact is, VN girls will stick with you through tough times while VK girls are more likely to jump ship the moment you lose your job, etc.
Quote :
Originally Posted by CockPuncher
Dung (beauty): VK girls up one. VK girls are generally more attractive because in their daily lives they are not exposed to damaging sun, better cosmetic products, cooler weather. However, they are harder to find since the number here is small. In VN, the percentage of good looking available girls is lower, but compensate for more in number.
VK girls may tend to look better at first to some guy because they have money to spend on cosmetic products and surgeries, but VN girls will catch up after a couple of years living in the US. and you brought up a good point; it's hard to find a pretty one who doesn't clean out your bank account after a short time of dating/living together. because there is a huge shortage of pretty Viet girls in the States.
Quote :
Originally Posted by CockPuncher
Ngôn (speech): VN girls win. VN girls are generally more dịu dàng, thùy mị. VK girls are so ball-busting.
agreed 100%. VK girls want to be tough, strong, independent. they want to be the modern feminists (like White women), but a lot of time they come of as obnoxious, abrasive, cold, and in-compassionate. they are MUCH worst than White girls when it comes to manner. in fact, most White women are very civilized. unfortunately, VK parents tried too hard to live the American dreams they didn't have enough time to teach their daughters basic manners.
Quote :
Originally Posted by CockPuncher
Hạnh (virtue, morality, ethics): Tied. Viet girls anywhere generally win over other ethnicities in this aspect.
well considering the high divorce rate in this country (highest in the world), and the low divorce rate in VN. it's safe to say that compared to VN girls, VK girls are a lot more materialistic and are much more likely to be gold diggers. many get married just to take half of your money later on. i will have to say VN girl win in this aspect as well.
Quote :
Originally Posted by CockPuncher
Financial stability in marriage life: my friend made a good point that he wants a double-income down the road. Of course, his mate-of-choice here are college educated girls with stable jobs and income.
VK girl *seems* to win in this department early on, but VK guys should take the following things into considerations:
1) VK girls have a significantly higher divorce rate. divorce costs money. if it is contested, it costs you even more.
2) VK girls may make more money (at first) BUT they also spend A WHOLE LOT MORE. VN girls aren't demanding. VN wives shop at target, VK wives shop at 5th Avenue to compete with other VK wives.
3) a VN girl who comes to the States at 25 can still go to college and make decent money a few years later.
Quote :
Originally Posted by CockPuncher
Cultural differences: we are young, and we think differently. I think there is a big cultural difference between VK and VN girls, and sometimes things don't change. For example, I drive a sport car, and a VN girl would not think a sport car is a functional piece of equipment.
Manipulative capabilities: VK girls our generation is more simple-minded. Mind you, all marriage you will get F'ed. VN girls will slowly poison you with honey, where as VK girls will just beat you down.
In all three aspects, I think it's preferable to marry a VK girl. What do you think?
you probably already know what i think. but of course, it's your
choice. like i have said it many times. if you can find a good VK girl to get married, GREAT do it. you don't need my advice or anyone's advice for that matter.
however, the chances of finding good, *beautiful* VK wife without breaking your back and signing over your 401K in this country is slim to none. and that's why many guys have been going back to VN.
Quote :
Originally Posted by CockPuncher
Burden of relatives in VN: This is one thing my family in VN is strong about. They're protecting their only child, and this is what they have to say to me regarding marrying VN girls.
When you marry a girl from US, your life together will me more of your own. However, when you marry a girl from VN, you are practically marrying her entire family. This is the main reason: many girls look at VK guys as a prospect for a better life outside of Vietnam, and in a way, help her family.
What do you think about this?
first of all this is just one of the many myths VK girls created to destroy their competition. the truth is, VN today is a different country now. since the labor there is even cheaper than China's, many Western companies are moving there and building like crazy. a lot of jobs have been created and many people are earning a decent living. so just because you marry a VN girl, it doesn't mean that you have to take care of her whole family - they CAN take of themselves.
second, i always tell the guy to NEVER pick a girl whose family needs "rescuing." meaning, do not pick girls from dirt poor family, as cold as this sound, it's for your own good, you are there to find a suitable wife, not to save VN families from hunger. save your charity work for another time.
remember, when you go back to VN, you instantly gain celebrity status, women WILL flock on you like bees on honey - you have many to chose from so you don't need to pick a girl that is looking for her family's provider. i would be honest and tell the girl straight up: i'm here to look for a wife, not to save a family. if you have a problem with that then this isn't going to work. if she doesn't like that she can take a hike, and you would be glad she did because she never loved you to begin with.
but say if you fell in love with the girl and you got weak and agreed to take care of her family. think about how much it costs to help a family to survive in VN: $100-200/month? that's like a night of dinner or clubbing for two in the States. then think about how much an LV purse your VK girl would have wanted each month costs..u get the idea.
Quote :
Originally Posted by CockPuncher
This point seem to have anticipated what I have to say:
Marriage in VN seems to be husband-directed, whereas marriage here seem to be wife-directed.
Do you think so? If so, WHY do you think this is the case?
where do i begin... a lot of things in the US are "women-directed"
the US is a biased society in which women are always "right" and men are always wrong. except for "Ugly Betty," how often do you see a show that makes fun of women? men are always made fun of on TV, and everywhere, women are always right, smart, intelligent, compassionate while men are the dumb, insensitive, cheaters, liars, etc.
just watch the Oprah show. men are always portrayed in a bad light while women are usually the "victims."
when a man cheats, it's because he's a dog. but when a woman cheats, it's because she feels emotionally trapped, or because the husband fails to communicate, blah blah blah, etc.
pregnant women are beautiful. yeah right!
feminism has a lot to do with it. U.S women want to compete with men in ALL aspects of life. they don't want half, they want MORE than half. in most household, women wear the pants because the men are scared of being divorced, thus losing money or even worse, going bankrupted because they knew they would be ravaged by the anti-male U.S divorce court system.
so don't be surprised when your VK wife gets the upper hand in almost every decision you two of you ever make "together." lol:
don't think this issue is only limited to Viets or Asians, intelligent, successful White males have been looking for wives in Southern America and Asia for ages. they simple don't want to be at a disadvantage.
Originally Posted by CockPuncher
Just so you know where I'm coming from: we're a couple of guys growing up in the states, age 24 - 28. Due to school and work, we kind of got separated along the way.
My friend has a engineering degree, working for a pretty high-end computer brand, pretty successful at his job, rising steadily towards middle management. He dates exclusively VK girls. He's never been to VN.
first thing first, it doesn't matter who you marry, as long as you make decent money (like your friend) ALWAYS get a pre-nup. the moment gold diggers hear the word pre-nup they'll run before your jaw can drop to the floor. yep they will scream and yell and call you by all the names and start all the nasty rumors about you but you will be glad you did it many years down the road. in this country, men get butchered in the divorce court system, so you can never be too careful.
i would suggest your friend to take a trip to VN before settling down with anyone in the States. but stay away from city girls who frequent the clubs and bia om etc. find someone with a decent job and a good background. he'll see a complete different group of women there - compassionate, affectionate, loyal, non-materialistic to name a few.
Quote :
Originally Posted by CockPuncher
I don't have any experience in a relationship with a VK or VN girl since in my line of work I don't meet a lot of Viet girls. I've been to VN a couple of times.
like i said, White girls are ok, if you can find an attractive one that messed up in the head. and my other choice would be VN girls - your best best all things being equal.
think of it like shopping for a car:
White girl is like a BMW, fun to drive and cost $55K. not reliable and you have to get rid of it after the extended warranty is up. but you get what you paid for.
VN girl is the best bargain. think of a brand new, reliable Lexus with all the gadgets you need and want for only $5K. best bang for your buck.
VK girl is like the used and overpriced Toyota Corolla that costs $50K. worst choice.
Quote :
Originally Posted by CockPuncher
What do you think about this comment he made:
When you date a Viet girl here in the US, you have to be gallant and spoil them, because that's the game Viet guys here play. If you don't play the game, you'll get owned. That is why you see cute girls with below-average looking guy, because he spoils her and revolve his life around her.
yep VK guys are partly responsible for the way VK girls are today. if they stop showering these women with money and attention, their market values would go down. even average or below average looking VK girl in this country get plenty of attention because there is a shortage of Viet women in the States. most of the boat people were males.
1) 60% of women in this country are OBESE. that's not fat, that's beyond fat.
2) a lot of millionaires in this country and take most the pretty women.
there are a lot more beautiful Viet girls in VN. for ANY given guy, the women he attracts in VN is A LOT younger and hotter than the ones he does in the States. so regardless of the sky-rocketed divorce rate in the States, it's a no brainer which is a better choice.
quick and simple rule: if you make enough money to buy a a house on your own, VN girls are a much better choice
Quote :
Originally Posted by CockPuncher
Công (craft): VN girls win hands down. They woulld make breakfast for their parents, go to work, and when they go home they would do house chores. I swear, I look at the husbands there who only go to coffee shops in the morning, nhau at night...and I think about my azz doing everything in the house, I freaking wanna stand outside with a sign that says: 'Trai can vo'. I swear, none of the girls my friend dated showed any sign of domestic capabilities.
agreed. VN girls are taught to stick with their husbands and take care of them. think of unconditional love. now, i myself dont' want take advantage of any woman's good heart. but the fact is, VN girls will stick with you through tough times while VK girls are more likely to jump ship the moment you lose your job, etc.
Quote :
Originally Posted by CockPuncher
Dung (beauty): VK girls up one. VK girls are generally more attractive because in their daily lives they are not exposed to damaging sun, better cosmetic products, cooler weather. However, they are harder to find since the number here is small. In VN, the percentage of good looking available girls is lower, but compensate for more in number.
VK girls may tend to look better at first to some guy because they have money to spend on cosmetic products and surgeries, but VN girls will catch up after a couple of years living in the US. and you brought up a good point; it's hard to find a pretty one who doesn't clean out your bank account after a short time of dating/living together. because there is a huge shortage of pretty Viet girls in the States.
Quote :
Originally Posted by CockPuncher
Ngôn (speech): VN girls win. VN girls are generally more dịu dàng, thùy mị. VK girls are so ball-busting.
agreed 100%. VK girls want to be tough, strong, independent. they want to be the modern feminists (like White women), but a lot of time they come of as obnoxious, abrasive, cold, and in-compassionate. they are MUCH worst than White girls when it comes to manner. in fact, most White women are very civilized. unfortunately, VK parents tried too hard to live the American dreams they didn't have enough time to teach their daughters basic manners.
Quote :
Originally Posted by CockPuncher
Hạnh (virtue, morality, ethics): Tied. Viet girls anywhere generally win over other ethnicities in this aspect.
well considering the high divorce rate in this country (highest in the world), and the low divorce rate in VN. it's safe to say that compared to VN girls, VK girls are a lot more materialistic and are much more likely to be gold diggers. many get married just to take half of your money later on. i will have to say VN girl win in this aspect as well.
Quote :
Originally Posted by CockPuncher
Financial stability in marriage life: my friend made a good point that he wants a double-income down the road. Of course, his mate-of-choice here are college educated girls with stable jobs and income.
VK girl *seems* to win in this department early on, but VK guys should take the following things into considerations:
1) VK girls have a significantly higher divorce rate. divorce costs money. if it is contested, it costs you even more.
2) VK girls may make more money (at first) BUT they also spend A WHOLE LOT MORE. VN girls aren't demanding. VN wives shop at target, VK wives shop at 5th Avenue to compete with other VK wives.
3) a VN girl who comes to the States at 25 can still go to college and make decent money a few years later.
Quote :
Originally Posted by CockPuncher
Cultural differences: we are young, and we think differently. I think there is a big cultural difference between VK and VN girls, and sometimes things don't change. For example, I drive a sport car, and a VN girl would not think a sport car is a functional piece of equipment.
Manipulative capabilities: VK girls our generation is more simple-minded. Mind you, all marriage you will get F'ed. VN girls will slowly poison you with honey, where as VK girls will just beat you down.
In all three aspects, I think it's preferable to marry a VK girl. What do you think?
you probably already know what i think. but of course, it's your
choice. like i have said it many times. if you can find a good VK girl to get married, GREAT do it. you don't need my advice or anyone's advice for that matter.
however, the chances of finding good, *beautiful* VK wife without breaking your back and signing over your 401K in this country is slim to none. and that's why many guys have been going back to VN.
Quote :
Originally Posted by CockPuncher
Burden of relatives in VN: This is one thing my family in VN is strong about. They're protecting their only child, and this is what they have to say to me regarding marrying VN girls.
When you marry a girl from US, your life together will me more of your own. However, when you marry a girl from VN, you are practically marrying her entire family. This is the main reason: many girls look at VK guys as a prospect for a better life outside of Vietnam, and in a way, help her family.
What do you think about this?
first of all this is just one of the many myths VK girls created to destroy their competition. the truth is, VN today is a different country now. since the labor there is even cheaper than China's, many Western companies are moving there and building like crazy. a lot of jobs have been created and many people are earning a decent living. so just because you marry a VN girl, it doesn't mean that you have to take care of her whole family - they CAN take of themselves.
second, i always tell the guy to NEVER pick a girl whose family needs "rescuing." meaning, do not pick girls from dirt poor family, as cold as this sound, it's for your own good, you are there to find a suitable wife, not to save VN families from hunger. save your charity work for another time.
remember, when you go back to VN, you instantly gain celebrity status, women WILL flock on you like bees on honey - you have many to chose from so you don't need to pick a girl that is looking for her family's provider. i would be honest and tell the girl straight up: i'm here to look for a wife, not to save a family. if you have a problem with that then this isn't going to work. if she doesn't like that she can take a hike, and you would be glad she did because she never loved you to begin with.
but say if you fell in love with the girl and you got weak and agreed to take care of her family. think about how much it costs to help a family to survive in VN: $100-200/month? that's like a night of dinner or clubbing for two in the States. then think about how much an LV purse your VK girl would have wanted each month costs..u get the idea.
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Originally Posted by CockPuncher
This point seem to have anticipated what I have to say:
Marriage in VN seems to be husband-directed, whereas marriage here seem to be wife-directed.
Do you think so? If so, WHY do you think this is the case?
where do i begin... a lot of things in the US are "women-directed"
the US is a biased society in which women are always "right" and men are always wrong. except for "Ugly Betty," how often do you see a show that makes fun of women? men are always made fun of on TV, and everywhere, women are always right, smart, intelligent, compassionate while men are the dumb, insensitive, cheaters, liars, etc.
just watch the Oprah show. men are always portrayed in a bad light while women are usually the "victims."
when a man cheats, it's because he's a dog. but when a woman cheats, it's because she feels emotionally trapped, or because the husband fails to communicate, blah blah blah, etc.
pregnant women are beautiful. yeah right!
feminism has a lot to do with it. U.S women want to compete with men in ALL aspects of life. they don't want half, they want MORE than half. in most household, women wear the pants because the men are scared of being divorced, thus losing money or even worse, going bankrupted because they knew they would be ravaged by the anti-male U.S divorce court system.
so don't be surprised when your VK wife gets the upper hand in almost every decision you two of you ever make "together." lol:
don't think this issue is only limited to Viets or Asians, intelligent, successful White males have been looking for wives in Southern America and Asia for ages. they simple don't want to be at a disadvantage.
Monday, August 2, 2010
A SUCCESS STORY
[QUOTE=VKXautrai]Khi tôi về VN người người ta gọi tôi là VK , và trong túi VK này có khoản $5000, tui về đó 1 tháng . một ngày tui sài trung bình khoản $200 ( =4 triêu đồng=3 tháng lương một công nhân bình thường ) , thế là tui tự nhiên thành người giàu rồi . 1 ngày xài bình thường = 3 tháng người khác đi làm . thế là tui từ thèng VK xấu trai vô dụng ở mỷ lại trớ trêu trở thành, mục tiêu và mơ ước của các cô gái đẹp ở VN (gái đẹp nghe , gái xâu xấu chỉ có nước ngồi thèm thôi ) . thế là tui lấy được một em 22 tuổi , vú, mông ngồn ngộn nhìn là muốc cắn , mặc mủi thì đẹp hết biết .. nhìn là muốn hun à . em thua tui 10 tuổi .
ở Mỷ với một thèng công nhân quèn (và xấu trai nửa ) làm thợ tiện được trả lương $20/giờ , một tuần tui được lảnh hơn $500/wk . tui lảnh tuần nào xài tuần đó ...(tiền tui đi VN là vay ở 401K )
Tui rước em sang . bạn bè dòm mà thèm , nhưng lại không dám dòm thảng .. sợ nói địa vợ thằng bạn . thời gian đầu tụi tui củng khó khăn lắm .. nhưng ..ân ái thì rầm rầm rộ rộ . ngày nào củng 2 lần trở lên hết .
Nàng học thêm ESL, tui thì ràng cày thềm overtime để thêm thu nhập , chiều về gặp nhau cái là nút lưởi, cởi áo cởi quần cứ vậy và thấm thoát nàng qua củng được 5 tháng, và nàng đòi đi làm . thế là nghe ai giới thiệu cái tiệm nails gần nhà , nàng làm ở đó củng cực lắm ,nhưng trung bình tiền làm cọng tiền tip khách cho khoản $800-$1000, tui lúc này củng chiệu khó làm overtime nên ngoài chuyện có bảo hiểm cho hai đứa, ít đóng thuế hơn vì mới lấy vợ nên 1 tuần tui đem về cho nàng củng được $700/tuần .
Ngoài nhửng lúc hai đứa trần truồng ra , tui tụi thủ thỉ " anh nè, tụi mình cố gắng dành tiền để mua cái nhà , chứ ở nhà mướn hoài em không thích " tất nhiên tui .. hun môi đỏ nàng cái là cười " vợ anh nói đúng " .
Sản dịp nhà đang suống giá ,và tụi tui củng để dành được $23000, tui đi coi nhà liền , trong thời gian coi nhà tụi tui lại cố găng để dành hơn , cuối cùng củng được hơn $30K ,
Có cái nhà vừa ý , 2 tầng (hi-range) , 5 phòng ngủ , giá $320K , tui trả lui trả tới thế là họ chiệu bán với giá $300K ,
Tui down suống 3.5% (=$10.5K ) + closing cost cuối cùng cost tui gần $30K .
tụi tui vào ở , không có gì trong nhà hết, ngủ trên tấm nệm lót trên sàng nhà , tui sửa nhà và cho mướn tầng dưới 2 phòng ngủ , bếp, phòng tắm entry ,, tất cả đều riêng biệt với giá $1400 (include all utility ) . thế là morgage + utility tui phải trả thêm khoản $1500 nựa .
Từ không có nhà, đến có nhà .. sau khi trả tiền nha tiêu xài . tui tui củng còn dư được $3k/tháng .
bây giờ tụi tui để dành được hơn $10K rồi . định mua cho nàng chiếc xe , không thôi để thèng làm chung tiệm đưa đi đón về tui không thích .
VKxấu trai[/QUOTE]
VKXautrai,
congratulations on being married to a beautiful and lovely VN wife. i would ignore the negative comments made by some unhappy people on this site. they want what you have but can't have it, hence their frustrations. and they hope you fail so they'll feel better about their choices. and of course, there is always jealousy.
traveling half the globe to find love is not something that most people want to do. it takes time, patience and some saved-up money up front. many guys would rather settle for someone nearby for convenience even when the attraction isn't there. even though the local women are not their ideal lovers, they are the best these men can get without having to do too much work. this is the "safe" route most guys take. the truth is, it is absolutely not safer, but that's another post.
therefore every time i see a VK guy find a beautiful wife in VN, not only i'm in awe, but i also admire his courage and his great sense of adventure. this type of romance is not for everyone and definitely not for those who are afraid of to step out of their comfort zone, those who are scared of the unknown or those who lack courage and a sense of adventure. this is almost like Indiana Jones bringing back a lovely, exotic lover after a long journey deep in the Amazon. this is the fairy tale you don't hear about very often - a man knows exactly what he wants and he travels half the world to get it and he doesn't give a damn what everyone else thinks. all women LOVE a man like this and VN girls are no exceptions. he may not be rich or handsome but in my book, this guy is a winner. the loser is the guy who sit on his ass all day long and doesn't do anything about it, then later settles for woman he doesn't really want.
even if things don't work out later, you can always reach back into your mind to find these good memories and say you were the luckiest guy on earth for 5 years. now, how many old men you know that can say this?
this quote says it all:
"because in the end, what is man? only a sum of his memories"
you are living this adventure right now - you should feel blessed.
since this is such a beautiful, touching success story, i will put it on dating my website. thanks for posting it.
Professor car_dude
ở Mỷ với một thèng công nhân quèn (và xấu trai nửa ) làm thợ tiện được trả lương $20/giờ , một tuần tui được lảnh hơn $500/wk . tui lảnh tuần nào xài tuần đó ...(tiền tui đi VN là vay ở 401K )
Tui rước em sang . bạn bè dòm mà thèm , nhưng lại không dám dòm thảng .. sợ nói địa vợ thằng bạn . thời gian đầu tụi tui củng khó khăn lắm .. nhưng ..ân ái thì rầm rầm rộ rộ . ngày nào củng 2 lần trở lên hết .
Nàng học thêm ESL, tui thì ràng cày thềm overtime để thêm thu nhập , chiều về gặp nhau cái là nút lưởi, cởi áo cởi quần cứ vậy và thấm thoát nàng qua củng được 5 tháng, và nàng đòi đi làm . thế là nghe ai giới thiệu cái tiệm nails gần nhà , nàng làm ở đó củng cực lắm ,nhưng trung bình tiền làm cọng tiền tip khách cho khoản $800-$1000, tui lúc này củng chiệu khó làm overtime nên ngoài chuyện có bảo hiểm cho hai đứa, ít đóng thuế hơn vì mới lấy vợ nên 1 tuần tui đem về cho nàng củng được $700/tuần .
Ngoài nhửng lúc hai đứa trần truồng ra , tui tụi thủ thỉ " anh nè, tụi mình cố gắng dành tiền để mua cái nhà , chứ ở nhà mướn hoài em không thích " tất nhiên tui .. hun môi đỏ nàng cái là cười " vợ anh nói đúng " .
Sản dịp nhà đang suống giá ,và tụi tui củng để dành được $23000, tui đi coi nhà liền , trong thời gian coi nhà tụi tui lại cố găng để dành hơn , cuối cùng củng được hơn $30K ,
Có cái nhà vừa ý , 2 tầng (hi-range) , 5 phòng ngủ , giá $320K , tui trả lui trả tới thế là họ chiệu bán với giá $300K ,
Tui down suống 3.5% (=$10.5K ) + closing cost cuối cùng cost tui gần $30K .
tụi tui vào ở , không có gì trong nhà hết, ngủ trên tấm nệm lót trên sàng nhà , tui sửa nhà và cho mướn tầng dưới 2 phòng ngủ , bếp, phòng tắm entry ,, tất cả đều riêng biệt với giá $1400 (include all utility ) . thế là morgage + utility tui phải trả thêm khoản $1500 nựa .
Từ không có nhà, đến có nhà .. sau khi trả tiền nha tiêu xài . tui tui củng còn dư được $3k/tháng .
bây giờ tụi tui để dành được hơn $10K rồi . định mua cho nàng chiếc xe , không thôi để thèng làm chung tiệm đưa đi đón về tui không thích .
VKxấu trai[/QUOTE]
VKXautrai,
congratulations on being married to a beautiful and lovely VN wife. i would ignore the negative comments made by some unhappy people on this site. they want what you have but can't have it, hence their frustrations. and they hope you fail so they'll feel better about their choices. and of course, there is always jealousy.
traveling half the globe to find love is not something that most people want to do. it takes time, patience and some saved-up money up front. many guys would rather settle for someone nearby for convenience even when the attraction isn't there. even though the local women are not their ideal lovers, they are the best these men can get without having to do too much work. this is the "safe" route most guys take. the truth is, it is absolutely not safer, but that's another post.
therefore every time i see a VK guy find a beautiful wife in VN, not only i'm in awe, but i also admire his courage and his great sense of adventure. this type of romance is not for everyone and definitely not for those who are afraid of to step out of their comfort zone, those who are scared of the unknown or those who lack courage and a sense of adventure. this is almost like Indiana Jones bringing back a lovely, exotic lover after a long journey deep in the Amazon. this is the fairy tale you don't hear about very often - a man knows exactly what he wants and he travels half the world to get it and he doesn't give a damn what everyone else thinks. all women LOVE a man like this and VN girls are no exceptions. he may not be rich or handsome but in my book, this guy is a winner. the loser is the guy who sit on his ass all day long and doesn't do anything about it, then later settles for woman he doesn't really want.
even if things don't work out later, you can always reach back into your mind to find these good memories and say you were the luckiest guy on earth for 5 years. now, how many old men you know that can say this?
this quote says it all:
"because in the end, what is man? only a sum of his memories"
you are living this adventure right now - you should feel blessed.
since this is such a beautiful, touching success story, i will put it on dating my website. thanks for posting it.
Professor car_dude
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