Money Hungry VK girl #1 asks:
"Ladies what would you do if bf forget your bd for the 7th times?
i don't know why but seem to me like no one remember my bd, not even my mom whom give birth to me. she would remind me a fews day ahead but when the day actually come she never say anything not even chuc con sinh nhat vui ve. Almost every year something bad happen on my bd. i either gets yell at by my mom or get into an argument with my bf. Like yesterday my bf and i didn't talk. i don't even know why, just woke up in the morning and he gets angry at me for no reason and wouldn't talk to me the whole day. so i ended up spending my bd alone, again for the 7th time.
i plan to leave him but i don't have any money in my hand right now. i'd just found a job and plan to save enough money to rent a place of my own then i'll leave him. as for now i'll just have to stick with him. i don't know if i'm wrong for doing that but i don't feel like he love me at all. sometime i feel like i'm just there to please him. when he's happy i feel safe but when he's mad, he makes me feel bad, useless for not working, useless for not being anything."
Professor CAR_DUDE answers:
"this one of those questions that i'd love to respond to as it greatly reflects the situations that MOST VK girls often find themselves in: their boyfriends/husbands don't appreciate/respect them.
my assessment of the situation is that you don't want to be with him but you stay because you want free rent, free meals, free clothes, etc. and your boyfriend keeps you around for just for sex (because he doesn't love you it seems) and hopefully, some house chores.
your bf give you security and in return, you give him sex. sounds like a fair deal, or does it?
first off, as mentioned numerous times, this is just another form of prostitution. the only difference between your relationship and some guy hiring a hooker is that the former is legal while the second isn't. as you know, VK girls are very well versed in the art of gold-digging so most of them (you included) have been taking advantage of this "loophole" in the laws to the fullest.
now that we have clearly established the real nature of your relationship: a legalized form of prostitution, lets move on to the next issue: your demands of respect, love & affection. you want him to remember your birthday, treat you with better respect and so forth. here's the thing, these are the things you can never demand from a man - a concept VK girls have extreme difficulties in understanding. you can't FORCE a person to give you the kind of love and respect they are not willing to give; no amount of asking, demanding, manipulating, sex withholding and alligator tears is going to get you these things. (these things may work if what you want is money, though. but as a VK girl, you probably know that already).
moreover, i want you to think about this: would a hooker expect the customer to remember her birthday? NO. it would be absurd, wouldn't it. also, would a hooker have any rights to demand love or affection from her customer? no way. that would only make people laugh.
BUT THAT'S WHAT YOU ARE ASKING YOUR BF TO DO!!
he won't do it, he can't do it and he'll never want to do it. the moment you moved in and began taking advantage of him financially, knowing quite well you don't love him, was the moment he lost all respect for you - forget love & affection.
if one ever finds themselves faced with this problem in their dating life, the only solution is to pack and leave. but this is your dilemma: you are not willing to leave because, like most VK girls, while often claiming "INDEPENDENT", you want to dig this gold mine. it is in VK girls' nature to dig, dig and dig. so i don't exactly have a solution to your problem: you want to continue taking advantage of this poor guy like crow ravaging a dead carcass but you want him to love & respect you at the same time? quite an outrageous demand.
if anyone has problems comprehending what i'm writing, just picture VK girls as parasites, they just want to find a rich, healthy host and start sucking it dry - slowly killing it physically and emotionally from the inside. then one day, when the unfortunate victim dies a painful, agonizing death, the cold-blooded, shameless parasites begin leaving the dead host and start the search for their new victims. and life continues..."
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