Professor car_dude answers VK Guys' relationship questions

random naive, clueless VK guy asks:

"I met this beautiful single mom on VF chat room.
I myself single dad as well. tall / above ave/financial secure.
shes in her thirty.. I known her for several weeks
We chat everynight till 3 am.We went out couple times , everything is so perfect, holding hand, sweet kisses,laughter,I start to falling for this beautiful lady, I brough food and medicine to her job just because i care so much for her for little time knew her. She texted me often that she missed me,
All the sudden , out of the blue, when I texted and called her, she dont answer , so I was worry about her health being,
called her job, she answered and said dont call me at work. and hang up...So Im really confused, did I done or said something wrong? I just want her to tell what went wrong?
she's ignoring me is killing me inside, just want an explaination why this sweet person turned out to be so no so sweet as I though she would be. I know i will move on , but feel that I lost my true love that I have been searching all my life...
Dont guess me wrong, I have dated lot women before but this one is has a special place in my heart..anyone out there has similar situation? give me some input and no immature comments please....."

Prof. car_dude answers:

"let me point out some of the mistakes you have made. and man, you might be tall and decent looking but you sure are a rookie. your lack of experience in dating VK girls is so obviously you have scared all of the women on this site with this post of yours. basically you have totally ruined all your chances with this chic, but here are some newbie lessons you can take home:

1) don't ever talk on the phone with VK girls for more than 5 minutes. the only time you use that phone to talk to them is when you call and ask them out on a date. tell them when and where, then you hang up. you gotta look BUSY like you have better things to do than listening to their PMS induced late night rants. if you talk to them everyday until 3am then they know you have no other chics to talk to - your market value has just plummeted.

2) don't do any gay shit like bringing stuffs to her work. what are you? her assistant? all women want to be banged by guys who are BETTER than them, not unimportant guys who have nothing better to do than taking time off from work and bringing them their tampons. i don't care if you are a janitor at McDonald, if you want to bang VK girls, it should be the other way around: you have important things to do at work, you don't have time to talk to them and THEY are the ones who should bring you your lunch.

3) doesn't sound like you have had sex with her. and you have known her for weeks. that is MAJOR mistake. there is a very concrete rule for dealing with VK girls these days: if she doesn't spread her legs after 3 dates then that's it, you delete her number from your cell phone. if you cant bang her after 3 dates, chances are you will never be able to bang her. stop wasting time and money on her.

4) texting is for pussies. don't do that crap. if she doesn't answer your phone call, you wait 1 or 2 weeks then call her again. in the mean time, go out and hit on other chics. you don't call 2-3 times in a row and then call her at work like a needy idiot. women hate that shit because they don't want to date a desperate guy. stop giving them a reason to dislike you.

5) your "true love"? HAHAHAHAHA you make me laugh which is why i love to response to this lame post of yours. you have known her only for a few weeks, you probably haven't gotten into her pants yet. and you got played by her, apparently. but you say you have a special place for her in your heart? is this the first girl you have ever dated? HAHAHA you are killing me Larry. here is the rule for ALL men when it comes to "true love" if there is even such a thing: don't even think about uttering the word love until you have lived with the girl for 6 months. YEP! SIX MONTHS, that's how long it would take to see the girl for who she really is. men see a hot woman and our tesrosterone shoots up the roof so most of the time we'll think that's "love" but in fact that's just your natural desires to mate with her.

6) but your biggest mistake is falling for a VK girl, even worse, a single VK mom. you never want to fall in love with VK girls because the moment they know you have feelings for them, they'll start taking advantage of you financially, IMMEDIATELY. as mentioned numerous times in my guides, VK girls are only good for sex and nothing else, regardless of how good the sex is. the moment you think you have developed feelings for a VK girl you bang her for the last time, just for for some memory hehe, then you head for that door, you run and never look back. they are not marriage materials. you only use them for one night stands, booty calls, and hit-n-runs. marry a VN girl if you want a REAL wife, but if think you are all that and you can afford to burn some money then fine, go all the way and get a White girl. but VK girls have ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO OFFER YOU in compared to White girls and VN girls."