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Originally Posted by CockPuncher
Just so you know where I'm coming from: we're a couple of guys growing up in the states, age 24 - 28. Due to school and work, we kind of got separated along the way.
My friend has a engineering degree, working for a pretty high-end computer brand, pretty successful at his job, rising steadily towards middle management. He dates exclusively VK girls. He's never been to VN.
first thing first, it doesn't matter who you marry, as long as you make decent money (like your friend) ALWAYS get a pre-nup. the moment gold diggers hear the word pre-nup they'll run before your jaw can drop to the floor. yep they will scream and yell and call you by all the names and start all the nasty rumors about you but you will be glad you did it many years down the road. in this country, men get butchered in the divorce court system, so you can never be too careful.
i would suggest your friend to take a trip to VN before settling down with anyone in the States. but stay away from city girls who frequent the clubs and bia om etc. find someone with a decent job and a good background. he'll see a complete different group of women there - compassionate, affectionate, loyal, non-materialistic to name a few.
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Originally Posted by CockPuncher
I don't have any experience in a relationship with a VK or VN girl since in my line of work I don't meet a lot of Viet girls. I've been to VN a couple of times.
like i said, White girls are ok, if you can find an attractive one that messed up in the head. and my other choice would be VN girls - your best best all things being equal.
think of it like shopping for a car:
White girl is like a BMW, fun to drive and cost $55K. not reliable and you have to get rid of it after the extended warranty is up. but you get what you paid for.
VN girl is the best bargain. think of a brand new, reliable Lexus with all the gadgets you need and want for only $5K. best bang for your buck.
VK girl is like the used and overpriced Toyota Corolla that costs $50K. worst choice.
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Originally Posted by CockPuncher
What do you think about this comment he made:
When you date a Viet girl here in the US, you have to be gallant and spoil them, because that's the game Viet guys here play. If you don't play the game, you'll get owned. That is why you see cute girls with below-average looking guy, because he spoils her and revolve his life around her.
yep VK guys are partly responsible for the way VK girls are today. if they stop showering these women with money and attention, their market values would go down. even average or below average looking VK girl in this country get plenty of attention because there is a shortage of Viet women in the States. most of the boat people were males.
1) 60% of women in this country are OBESE. that's not fat, that's beyond fat.
2) a lot of millionaires in this country and take most the pretty women.
there are a lot more beautiful Viet girls in VN. for ANY given guy, the women he attracts in VN is A LOT younger and hotter than the ones he does in the States. so regardless of the sky-rocketed divorce rate in the States, it's a no brainer which is a better choice.
quick and simple rule: if you make enough money to buy a a house on your own, VN girls are a much better choice
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Originally Posted by CockPuncher
Công (craft): VN girls win hands down. They woulld make breakfast for their parents, go to work, and when they go home they would do house chores. I swear, I look at the husbands there who only go to coffee shops in the morning, nhau at night...and I think about my azz doing everything in the house, I freaking wanna stand outside with a sign that says: 'Trai can vo'. I swear, none of the girls my friend dated showed any sign of domestic capabilities.
agreed. VN girls are taught to stick with their husbands and take care of them. think of unconditional love. now, i myself dont' want take advantage of any woman's good heart. but the fact is, VN girls will stick with you through tough times while VK girls are more likely to jump ship the moment you lose your job, etc.
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Originally Posted by CockPuncher
Dung (beauty): VK girls up one. VK girls are generally more attractive because in their daily lives they are not exposed to damaging sun, better cosmetic products, cooler weather. However, they are harder to find since the number here is small. In VN, the percentage of good looking available girls is lower, but compensate for more in number.
VK girls may tend to look better at first to some guy because they have money to spend on cosmetic products and surgeries, but VN girls will catch up after a couple of years living in the US. and you brought up a good point; it's hard to find a pretty one who doesn't clean out your bank account after a short time of dating/living together. because there is a huge shortage of pretty Viet girls in the States.
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Originally Posted by CockPuncher
Ngôn (speech): VN girls win. VN girls are generally more dịu dàng, thùy mị. VK girls are so ball-busting.
agreed 100%. VK girls want to be tough, strong, independent. they want to be the modern feminists (like White women), but a lot of time they come of as obnoxious, abrasive, cold, and in-compassionate. they are MUCH worst than White girls when it comes to manner. in fact, most White women are very civilized. unfortunately, VK parents tried too hard to live the American dreams they didn't have enough time to teach their daughters basic manners.
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Originally Posted by CockPuncher
Hạnh (virtue, morality, ethics): Tied. Viet girls anywhere generally win over other ethnicities in this aspect.
well considering the high divorce rate in this country (highest in the world), and the low divorce rate in VN. it's safe to say that compared to VN girls, VK girls are a lot more materialistic and are much more likely to be gold diggers. many get married just to take half of your money later on. i will have to say VN girl win in this aspect as well.
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Originally Posted by CockPuncher
Financial stability in marriage life: my friend made a good point that he wants a double-income down the road. Of course, his mate-of-choice here are college educated girls with stable jobs and income.
VK girl *seems* to win in this department early on, but VK guys should take the following things into considerations:
1) VK girls have a significantly higher divorce rate. divorce costs money. if it is contested, it costs you even more.
2) VK girls may make more money (at first) BUT they also spend A WHOLE LOT MORE. VN girls aren't demanding. VN wives shop at target, VK wives shop at 5th Avenue to compete with other VK wives.
3) a VN girl who comes to the States at 25 can still go to college and make decent money a few years later.
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Originally Posted by CockPuncher
Cultural differences: we are young, and we think differently. I think there is a big cultural difference between VK and VN girls, and sometimes things don't change. For example, I drive a sport car, and a VN girl would not think a sport car is a functional piece of equipment.
Manipulative capabilities: VK girls our generation is more simple-minded. Mind you, all marriage you will get F'ed. VN girls will slowly poison you with honey, where as VK girls will just beat you down.
In all three aspects, I think it's preferable to marry a VK girl. What do you think?
you probably already know what i think. but of course, it's your
choice. like i have said it many times. if you can find a good VK girl to get married, GREAT do it. you don't need my advice or anyone's advice for that matter.
however, the chances of finding good, *beautiful* VK wife without breaking your back and signing over your 401K in this country is slim to none. and that's why many guys have been going back to VN.
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Originally Posted by CockPuncher
Burden of relatives in VN: This is one thing my family in VN is strong about. They're protecting their only child, and this is what they have to say to me regarding marrying VN girls.
When you marry a girl from US, your life together will me more of your own. However, when you marry a girl from VN, you are practically marrying her entire family. This is the main reason: many girls look at VK guys as a prospect for a better life outside of Vietnam, and in a way, help her family.
What do you think about this?
first of all this is just one of the many myths VK girls created to destroy their competition. the truth is, VN today is a different country now. since the labor there is even cheaper than China's, many Western companies are moving there and building like crazy. a lot of jobs have been created and many people are earning a decent living. so just because you marry a VN girl, it doesn't mean that you have to take care of her whole family - they CAN take of themselves.
second, i always tell the guy to NEVER pick a girl whose family needs "rescuing." meaning, do not pick girls from dirt poor family, as cold as this sound, it's for your own good, you are there to find a suitable wife, not to save VN families from hunger. save your charity work for another time.
remember, when you go back to VN, you instantly gain celebrity status, women WILL flock on you like bees on honey - you have many to chose from so you don't need to pick a girl that is looking for her family's provider. i would be honest and tell the girl straight up: i'm here to look for a wife, not to save a family. if you have a problem with that then this isn't going to work. if she doesn't like that she can take a hike, and you would be glad she did because she never loved you to begin with.
but say if you fell in love with the girl and you got weak and agreed to take care of her family. think about how much it costs to help a family to survive in VN: $100-200/month? that's like a night of dinner or clubbing for two in the States. then think about how much an LV purse your VK girl would have wanted each month costs..u get the idea.
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Originally Posted by CockPuncher
This point seem to have anticipated what I have to say:
Marriage in VN seems to be husband-directed, whereas marriage here seem to be wife-directed.
Do you think so? If so, WHY do you think this is the case?
where do i begin... a lot of things in the US are "women-directed"
the US is a biased society in which women are always "right" and men are always wrong. except for "Ugly Betty," how often do you see a show that makes fun of women? men are always made fun of on TV, and everywhere, women are always right, smart, intelligent, compassionate while men are the dumb, insensitive, cheaters, liars, etc.
just watch the Oprah show. men are always portrayed in a bad light while women are usually the "victims."
when a man cheats, it's because he's a dog. but when a woman cheats, it's because she feels emotionally trapped, or because the husband fails to communicate, blah blah blah, etc.
pregnant women are beautiful. yeah right!
feminism has a lot to do with it. U.S women want to compete with men in ALL aspects of life. they don't want half, they want MORE than half. in most household, women wear the pants because the men are scared of being divorced, thus losing money or even worse, going bankrupted because they knew they would be ravaged by the anti-male U.S divorce court system.
so don't be surprised when your VK wife gets the upper hand in almost every decision you two of you ever make "together." lol:
don't think this issue is only limited to Viets or Asians, intelligent, successful White males have been looking for wives in Southern America and Asia for ages. they simple don't want to be at a disadvantage.
Friday, August 6, 2010
Monday, August 2, 2010
A SUCCESS STORY
[QUOTE=VKXautrai]Khi tôi về VN người người ta gọi tôi là VK , và trong túi VK này có khoản $5000, tui về đó 1 tháng . một ngày tui sài trung bình khoản $200 ( =4 triêu đồng=3 tháng lương một công nhân bình thường ) , thế là tui tự nhiên thành người giàu rồi . 1 ngày xài bình thường = 3 tháng người khác đi làm . thế là tui từ thèng VK xấu trai vô dụng ở mỷ lại trớ trêu trở thành, mục tiêu và mơ ước của các cô gái đẹp ở VN (gái đẹp nghe , gái xâu xấu chỉ có nước ngồi thèm thôi ) . thế là tui lấy được một em 22 tuổi , vú, mông ngồn ngộn nhìn là muốc cắn , mặc mủi thì đẹp hết biết .. nhìn là muốn hun à . em thua tui 10 tuổi .
ở Mỷ với một thèng công nhân quèn (và xấu trai nửa ) làm thợ tiện được trả lương $20/giờ , một tuần tui được lảnh hơn $500/wk . tui lảnh tuần nào xài tuần đó ...(tiền tui đi VN là vay ở 401K )
Tui rước em sang . bạn bè dòm mà thèm , nhưng lại không dám dòm thảng .. sợ nói địa vợ thằng bạn . thời gian đầu tụi tui củng khó khăn lắm .. nhưng ..ân ái thì rầm rầm rộ rộ . ngày nào củng 2 lần trở lên hết .
Nàng học thêm ESL, tui thì ràng cày thềm overtime để thêm thu nhập , chiều về gặp nhau cái là nút lưởi, cởi áo cởi quần cứ vậy và thấm thoát nàng qua củng được 5 tháng, và nàng đòi đi làm . thế là nghe ai giới thiệu cái tiệm nails gần nhà , nàng làm ở đó củng cực lắm ,nhưng trung bình tiền làm cọng tiền tip khách cho khoản $800-$1000, tui lúc này củng chiệu khó làm overtime nên ngoài chuyện có bảo hiểm cho hai đứa, ít đóng thuế hơn vì mới lấy vợ nên 1 tuần tui đem về cho nàng củng được $700/tuần .
Ngoài nhửng lúc hai đứa trần truồng ra , tui tụi thủ thỉ " anh nè, tụi mình cố gắng dành tiền để mua cái nhà , chứ ở nhà mướn hoài em không thích " tất nhiên tui .. hun môi đỏ nàng cái là cười " vợ anh nói đúng " .
Sản dịp nhà đang suống giá ,và tụi tui củng để dành được $23000, tui đi coi nhà liền , trong thời gian coi nhà tụi tui lại cố găng để dành hơn , cuối cùng củng được hơn $30K ,
Có cái nhà vừa ý , 2 tầng (hi-range) , 5 phòng ngủ , giá $320K , tui trả lui trả tới thế là họ chiệu bán với giá $300K ,
Tui down suống 3.5% (=$10.5K ) + closing cost cuối cùng cost tui gần $30K .
tụi tui vào ở , không có gì trong nhà hết, ngủ trên tấm nệm lót trên sàng nhà , tui sửa nhà và cho mướn tầng dưới 2 phòng ngủ , bếp, phòng tắm entry ,, tất cả đều riêng biệt với giá $1400 (include all utility ) . thế là morgage + utility tui phải trả thêm khoản $1500 nựa .
Từ không có nhà, đến có nhà .. sau khi trả tiền nha tiêu xài . tui tui củng còn dư được $3k/tháng .
bây giờ tụi tui để dành được hơn $10K rồi . định mua cho nàng chiếc xe , không thôi để thèng làm chung tiệm đưa đi đón về tui không thích .
VKxấu trai[/QUOTE]
VKXautrai,
congratulations on being married to a beautiful and lovely VN wife. i would ignore the negative comments made by some unhappy people on this site. they want what you have but can't have it, hence their frustrations. and they hope you fail so they'll feel better about their choices. and of course, there is always jealousy.
traveling half the globe to find love is not something that most people want to do. it takes time, patience and some saved-up money up front. many guys would rather settle for someone nearby for convenience even when the attraction isn't there. even though the local women are not their ideal lovers, they are the best these men can get without having to do too much work. this is the "safe" route most guys take. the truth is, it is absolutely not safer, but that's another post.
therefore every time i see a VK guy find a beautiful wife in VN, not only i'm in awe, but i also admire his courage and his great sense of adventure. this type of romance is not for everyone and definitely not for those who are afraid of to step out of their comfort zone, those who are scared of the unknown or those who lack courage and a sense of adventure. this is almost like Indiana Jones bringing back a lovely, exotic lover after a long journey deep in the Amazon. this is the fairy tale you don't hear about very often - a man knows exactly what he wants and he travels half the world to get it and he doesn't give a damn what everyone else thinks. all women LOVE a man like this and VN girls are no exceptions. he may not be rich or handsome but in my book, this guy is a winner. the loser is the guy who sit on his ass all day long and doesn't do anything about it, then later settles for woman he doesn't really want.
even if things don't work out later, you can always reach back into your mind to find these good memories and say you were the luckiest guy on earth for 5 years. now, how many old men you know that can say this?
this quote says it all:
"because in the end, what is man? only a sum of his memories"
you are living this adventure right now - you should feel blessed.
since this is such a beautiful, touching success story, i will put it on dating my website. thanks for posting it.
Professor car_dude
ở Mỷ với một thèng công nhân quèn (và xấu trai nửa ) làm thợ tiện được trả lương $20/giờ , một tuần tui được lảnh hơn $500/wk . tui lảnh tuần nào xài tuần đó ...(tiền tui đi VN là vay ở 401K )
Tui rước em sang . bạn bè dòm mà thèm , nhưng lại không dám dòm thảng .. sợ nói địa vợ thằng bạn . thời gian đầu tụi tui củng khó khăn lắm .. nhưng ..ân ái thì rầm rầm rộ rộ . ngày nào củng 2 lần trở lên hết .
Nàng học thêm ESL, tui thì ràng cày thềm overtime để thêm thu nhập , chiều về gặp nhau cái là nút lưởi, cởi áo cởi quần cứ vậy và thấm thoát nàng qua củng được 5 tháng, và nàng đòi đi làm . thế là nghe ai giới thiệu cái tiệm nails gần nhà , nàng làm ở đó củng cực lắm ,nhưng trung bình tiền làm cọng tiền tip khách cho khoản $800-$1000, tui lúc này củng chiệu khó làm overtime nên ngoài chuyện có bảo hiểm cho hai đứa, ít đóng thuế hơn vì mới lấy vợ nên 1 tuần tui đem về cho nàng củng được $700/tuần .
Ngoài nhửng lúc hai đứa trần truồng ra , tui tụi thủ thỉ " anh nè, tụi mình cố gắng dành tiền để mua cái nhà , chứ ở nhà mướn hoài em không thích " tất nhiên tui .. hun môi đỏ nàng cái là cười " vợ anh nói đúng " .
Sản dịp nhà đang suống giá ,và tụi tui củng để dành được $23000, tui đi coi nhà liền , trong thời gian coi nhà tụi tui lại cố găng để dành hơn , cuối cùng củng được hơn $30K ,
Có cái nhà vừa ý , 2 tầng (hi-range) , 5 phòng ngủ , giá $320K , tui trả lui trả tới thế là họ chiệu bán với giá $300K ,
Tui down suống 3.5% (=$10.5K ) + closing cost cuối cùng cost tui gần $30K .
tụi tui vào ở , không có gì trong nhà hết, ngủ trên tấm nệm lót trên sàng nhà , tui sửa nhà và cho mướn tầng dưới 2 phòng ngủ , bếp, phòng tắm entry ,, tất cả đều riêng biệt với giá $1400 (include all utility ) . thế là morgage + utility tui phải trả thêm khoản $1500 nựa .
Từ không có nhà, đến có nhà .. sau khi trả tiền nha tiêu xài . tui tui củng còn dư được $3k/tháng .
bây giờ tụi tui để dành được hơn $10K rồi . định mua cho nàng chiếc xe , không thôi để thèng làm chung tiệm đưa đi đón về tui không thích .
VKxấu trai[/QUOTE]
VKXautrai,
congratulations on being married to a beautiful and lovely VN wife. i would ignore the negative comments made by some unhappy people on this site. they want what you have but can't have it, hence their frustrations. and they hope you fail so they'll feel better about their choices. and of course, there is always jealousy.
traveling half the globe to find love is not something that most people want to do. it takes time, patience and some saved-up money up front. many guys would rather settle for someone nearby for convenience even when the attraction isn't there. even though the local women are not their ideal lovers, they are the best these men can get without having to do too much work. this is the "safe" route most guys take. the truth is, it is absolutely not safer, but that's another post.
therefore every time i see a VK guy find a beautiful wife in VN, not only i'm in awe, but i also admire his courage and his great sense of adventure. this type of romance is not for everyone and definitely not for those who are afraid of to step out of their comfort zone, those who are scared of the unknown or those who lack courage and a sense of adventure. this is almost like Indiana Jones bringing back a lovely, exotic lover after a long journey deep in the Amazon. this is the fairy tale you don't hear about very often - a man knows exactly what he wants and he travels half the world to get it and he doesn't give a damn what everyone else thinks. all women LOVE a man like this and VN girls are no exceptions. he may not be rich or handsome but in my book, this guy is a winner. the loser is the guy who sit on his ass all day long and doesn't do anything about it, then later settles for woman he doesn't really want.
even if things don't work out later, you can always reach back into your mind to find these good memories and say you were the luckiest guy on earth for 5 years. now, how many old men you know that can say this?
this quote says it all:
"because in the end, what is man? only a sum of his memories"
you are living this adventure right now - you should feel blessed.
since this is such a beautiful, touching success story, i will put it on dating my website. thanks for posting it.
Professor car_dude
Tuesday, May 4, 2010
VK GUYS SUPPORT THE PROFESSOR
yep...the overwhelming support from the male members of this place has proven one thing: the Professor speaks THEIR minds. and more often than not, any Vk guy who opposes VK guys - VN girls marriages usually fall into one of these categories:
1) spineless, opinion-less, low self-esteemed pussies who are too scared to say anything that would upset the VK bi.tches at this site. these wussies would do and say ANYTHING to seek women approval (ddo^` he`n nha't, da.i gai'. i.e frozen_heart.
2) weak, naive, stupid guys who have fallen victim to VK girls. they have married these *****y, loud-mouthed gold-diggers and now they gotta stick with them or they lose half of their money. of course they have to come in and defend their wives, no matter how fat, lazy and ugly they are: they have to find ways to justify their bad decisions so they can sleep better at night. but deep down inside, they know they have made a HUGE mistake, so whenever they see a guy marrying a young and hot girl in VN for much less money while they reluctantly come home every night to hideous monsters who wouldn't shut their mouths, they just want to commit suicide! MUBAHAHAHAHA! these are the fools who keep opening with "there are bad and good people everywhere...blah blah blah". please just stop it, we get it. you got SCREWED. no need to justify it! end of story.
don't get me wrong. i'm not the kind of guy who likes to talk **** about other guys' wives but please. if you made a mistake (of marrying a VK girl), be a man and admit it, don't come in here and bullshi.t us with politically correct crap in broken English. in the end, we get hot, lovely wives who can cook and you get fat, ugly, loud-mouthed bi.tches who refuse to cook HAHAHAHAH.
THE FKING END.
1) spineless, opinion-less, low self-esteemed pussies who are too scared to say anything that would upset the VK bi.tches at this site. these wussies would do and say ANYTHING to seek women approval (ddo^` he`n nha't, da.i gai'. i.e frozen_heart.
2) weak, naive, stupid guys who have fallen victim to VK girls. they have married these *****y, loud-mouthed gold-diggers and now they gotta stick with them or they lose half of their money. of course they have to come in and defend their wives, no matter how fat, lazy and ugly they are: they have to find ways to justify their bad decisions so they can sleep better at night. but deep down inside, they know they have made a HUGE mistake, so whenever they see a guy marrying a young and hot girl in VN for much less money while they reluctantly come home every night to hideous monsters who wouldn't shut their mouths, they just want to commit suicide! MUBAHAHAHAHA! these are the fools who keep opening with "there are bad and good people everywhere...blah blah blah". please just stop it, we get it. you got SCREWED. no need to justify it! end of story.
don't get me wrong. i'm not the kind of guy who likes to talk **** about other guys' wives but please. if you made a mistake (of marrying a VK girl), be a man and admit it, don't come in here and bullshi.t us with politically correct crap in broken English. in the end, we get hot, lovely wives who can cook and you get fat, ugly, loud-mouthed bi.tches who refuse to cook HAHAHAHAH.
THE FKING END.
Wednesday, April 21, 2010
SHOULD WE FEEL BAD FOR USING VK GIRLS FOR SEX?
the fact that VK girls LOVE to be treated like dirt is well known to most people. i even dedicated an article on page 25 to elaborate this point. besides, if you don't treat them like dirt you won't have a chance with them anyways; they will ditch you and move on to a guy that is willing to treat them like dirt. the nicer you are, the less they will want to have sex with you, and the more they'll want to be your friend so they can take advantage of you.
i don't see why any reason why a guy has to feel guilty for using VK girls for sex. remember guys, for any given VK girl, before you come into her life, she had ALREADY victimized many, many naive, unsuspecting guys before you and she will probably do the same thing to you. the moment she realizes that the fish (you) has taken the bait, she will start taking advantage of you INSTANTLY. of course they won't ask you to give them money directly but they'll drop hints such as:
1) talk about how much they want this new $500 Nokia phone but can't afford it. they expect you to feel sorry for them and buy it for them.
2) whine non-stop about their beat up car which breaks down 10 times a month and hope you'll get tired of her whining and help her buy a new one with some of your money.
3) talk about how cheap her ex-boyfriends or ex-husbands were. she wants you to know she hates guys who don't spend lots and lots of money on her - suggesting that if you are not willing to spend money on her you won't have a chance with her.
4) talk about how much she hates eating at inexpensive restaurants.
5) talk about how her ex-boyfriends or ex-husbands or her daddy treated her like a princess, giving her anything she wanted.
you get the point. all of the above are said with one and one purpose alone: she wants you to spend MORE money on her.
if you have only a few dates with a VK girl and she starts talking about financial problems then it's time to plan your exit strategies. you bang her a few more times then RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN. if a girl truly likes you she will never tell you about her financial problems because a) she doesn't want you to worry, b) she doesn't want to make you feel obligated to help her and c) she would not take your money anyways.
therefore, it is IMPERATIVE that you dump VK girls before you develop an attachment to these women. by doing this, not only will you protect yourself, your pride, you wallet but you will also do humanity a favor - you are punishing the ho's for scamming your fellow VK men.
i don't see why any reason why a guy has to feel guilty for using VK girls for sex. remember guys, for any given VK girl, before you come into her life, she had ALREADY victimized many, many naive, unsuspecting guys before you and she will probably do the same thing to you. the moment she realizes that the fish (you) has taken the bait, she will start taking advantage of you INSTANTLY. of course they won't ask you to give them money directly but they'll drop hints such as:
1) talk about how much they want this new $500 Nokia phone but can't afford it. they expect you to feel sorry for them and buy it for them.
2) whine non-stop about their beat up car which breaks down 10 times a month and hope you'll get tired of her whining and help her buy a new one with some of your money.
3) talk about how cheap her ex-boyfriends or ex-husbands were. she wants you to know she hates guys who don't spend lots and lots of money on her - suggesting that if you are not willing to spend money on her you won't have a chance with her.
4) talk about how much she hates eating at inexpensive restaurants.
5) talk about how her ex-boyfriends or ex-husbands or her daddy treated her like a princess, giving her anything she wanted.
you get the point. all of the above are said with one and one purpose alone: she wants you to spend MORE money on her.
if you have only a few dates with a VK girl and she starts talking about financial problems then it's time to plan your exit strategies. you bang her a few more times then RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN. if a girl truly likes you she will never tell you about her financial problems because a) she doesn't want you to worry, b) she doesn't want to make you feel obligated to help her and c) she would not take your money anyways.
therefore, it is IMPERATIVE that you dump VK girls before you develop an attachment to these women. by doing this, not only will you protect yourself, your pride, you wallet but you will also do humanity a favor - you are punishing the ho's for scamming your fellow VK men.
Wednesday, March 31, 2010
VK GUYS GET MORE QUALITY TIME WITH VN GIRLS
if a guy saves all his vacation and stay in VN for 2 weeks every year, at the very least, and if his VN gf takes her vacation at the same time, that is a total of 336 hours of quality time spent with his lovely, non-nagging, non-whiny, non-demanding VN hottie. an equivalence of 84 dates or 10 months of dating in the States, assuming a date lasts 4 hours on average and they go on 2 dates per week. HOW IS THAT NOT ENOUGH TIME FOR GETTING TO KNOW HIS VN LOVER?!??
everytime VK girls go on dates they spend half of the date circling around shopping malls, restaurants, jewery stores, a tatic frequently employed to extract more gifts and money from VK guys. VN girls cook healthy food for you everyday, do not care where you take them, as long as you take them out, they are happy! gifts are appreciated but never a REQUIREMENT as in the case with VK girls.
VK girls also use their sexual power to extort money from VK guys by CAREFULLY limiting the amount of sex they give to the amount of gift and money they receive in return. to get more sex from them you have to pay more! VN girls will not resort to this dirty tactic, VN girls give you SEX ANYTIME, ANYWHERE, NO QUESTIONS ASKED!!!
everytime VK girls go on dates they spend half of the date circling around shopping malls, restaurants, jewery stores, a tatic frequently employed to extract more gifts and money from VK guys. VN girls cook healthy food for you everyday, do not care where you take them, as long as you take them out, they are happy! gifts are appreciated but never a REQUIREMENT as in the case with VK girls.
VK girls also use their sexual power to extort money from VK guys by CAREFULLY limiting the amount of sex they give to the amount of gift and money they receive in return. to get more sex from them you have to pay more! VN girls will not resort to this dirty tactic, VN girls give you SEX ANYTIME, ANYWHERE, NO QUESTIONS ASKED!!!
Tuesday, March 30, 2010
Professor car_dude answers VK Guys' relationship questions
random naive, clueless VK guy asks:
"I met this beautiful single mom on VF chat room.
I myself single dad as well. tall / above ave/financial secure.
shes in her thirty.. I known her for several weeks
We chat everynight till 3 am.We went out couple times , everything is so perfect, holding hand, sweet kisses,laughter,I start to falling for this beautiful lady, I brough food and medicine to her job just because i care so much for her for little time knew her. She texted me often that she missed me,
All the sudden , out of the blue, when I texted and called her, she dont answer , so I was worry about her health being,
called her job, she answered and said dont call me at work. and hang up...So Im really confused, did I done or said something wrong? I just want her to tell what went wrong?
she's ignoring me is killing me inside, just want an explaination why this sweet person turned out to be so no so sweet as I though she would be. I know i will move on , but feel that I lost my true love that I have been searching all my life...
Dont guess me wrong, I have dated lot women before but this one is has a special place in my heart..anyone out there has similar situation? give me some input and no immature comments please....."
Prof. car_dude answers:
"let me point out some of the mistakes you have made. and man, you might be tall and decent looking but you sure are a rookie. your lack of experience in dating VK girls is so obviously you have scared all of the women on this site with this post of yours. basically you have totally ruined all your chances with this chic, but here are some newbie lessons you can take home:
1) don't ever talk on the phone with VK girls for more than 5 minutes. the only time you use that phone to talk to them is when you call and ask them out on a date. tell them when and where, then you hang up. you gotta look BUSY like you have better things to do than listening to their PMS induced late night rants. if you talk to them everyday until 3am then they know you have no other chics to talk to - your market value has just plummeted.
2) don't do any gay shit like bringing stuffs to her work. what are you? her assistant? all women want to be banged by guys who are BETTER than them, not unimportant guys who have nothing better to do than taking time off from work and bringing them their tampons. i don't care if you are a janitor at McDonald, if you want to bang VK girls, it should be the other way around: you have important things to do at work, you don't have time to talk to them and THEY are the ones who should bring you your lunch.
3) doesn't sound like you have had sex with her. and you have known her for weeks. that is MAJOR mistake. there is a very concrete rule for dealing with VK girls these days: if she doesn't spread her legs after 3 dates then that's it, you delete her number from your cell phone. if you cant bang her after 3 dates, chances are you will never be able to bang her. stop wasting time and money on her.
4) texting is for pussies. don't do that crap. if she doesn't answer your phone call, you wait 1 or 2 weeks then call her again. in the mean time, go out and hit on other chics. you don't call 2-3 times in a row and then call her at work like a needy idiot. women hate that shit because they don't want to date a desperate guy. stop giving them a reason to dislike you.
5) your "true love"? HAHAHAHAHA you make me laugh which is why i love to response to this lame post of yours. you have known her only for a few weeks, you probably haven't gotten into her pants yet. and you got played by her, apparently. but you say you have a special place for her in your heart? is this the first girl you have ever dated? HAHAHA you are killing me Larry. here is the rule for ALL men when it comes to "true love" if there is even such a thing: don't even think about uttering the word love until you have lived with the girl for 6 months. YEP! SIX MONTHS, that's how long it would take to see the girl for who she really is. men see a hot woman and our tesrosterone shoots up the roof so most of the time we'll think that's "love" but in fact that's just your natural desires to mate with her.
6) but your biggest mistake is falling for a VK girl, even worse, a single VK mom. you never want to fall in love with VK girls because the moment they know you have feelings for them, they'll start taking advantage of you financially, IMMEDIATELY. as mentioned numerous times in my guides, VK girls are only good for sex and nothing else, regardless of how good the sex is. the moment you think you have developed feelings for a VK girl you bang her for the last time, just for for some memory hehe, then you head for that door, you run and never look back. they are not marriage materials. you only use them for one night stands, booty calls, and hit-n-runs. marry a VN girl if you want a REAL wife, but if think you are all that and you can afford to burn some money then fine, go all the way and get a White girl. but VK girls have ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO OFFER YOU in compared to White girls and VN girls."
"I met this beautiful single mom on VF chat room.
I myself single dad as well. tall / above ave/financial secure.
shes in her thirty.. I known her for several weeks
We chat everynight till 3 am.We went out couple times , everything is so perfect, holding hand, sweet kisses,laughter,I start to falling for this beautiful lady, I brough food and medicine to her job just because i care so much for her for little time knew her. She texted me often that she missed me,
All the sudden , out of the blue, when I texted and called her, she dont answer , so I was worry about her health being,
called her job, she answered and said dont call me at work. and hang up...So Im really confused, did I done or said something wrong? I just want her to tell what went wrong?
she's ignoring me is killing me inside, just want an explaination why this sweet person turned out to be so no so sweet as I though she would be. I know i will move on , but feel that I lost my true love that I have been searching all my life...
Dont guess me wrong, I have dated lot women before but this one is has a special place in my heart..anyone out there has similar situation? give me some input and no immature comments please....."
Prof. car_dude answers:
"let me point out some of the mistakes you have made. and man, you might be tall and decent looking but you sure are a rookie. your lack of experience in dating VK girls is so obviously you have scared all of the women on this site with this post of yours. basically you have totally ruined all your chances with this chic, but here are some newbie lessons you can take home:
1) don't ever talk on the phone with VK girls for more than 5 minutes. the only time you use that phone to talk to them is when you call and ask them out on a date. tell them when and where, then you hang up. you gotta look BUSY like you have better things to do than listening to their PMS induced late night rants. if you talk to them everyday until 3am then they know you have no other chics to talk to - your market value has just plummeted.
2) don't do any gay shit like bringing stuffs to her work. what are you? her assistant? all women want to be banged by guys who are BETTER than them, not unimportant guys who have nothing better to do than taking time off from work and bringing them their tampons. i don't care if you are a janitor at McDonald, if you want to bang VK girls, it should be the other way around: you have important things to do at work, you don't have time to talk to them and THEY are the ones who should bring you your lunch.
3) doesn't sound like you have had sex with her. and you have known her for weeks. that is MAJOR mistake. there is a very concrete rule for dealing with VK girls these days: if she doesn't spread her legs after 3 dates then that's it, you delete her number from your cell phone. if you cant bang her after 3 dates, chances are you will never be able to bang her. stop wasting time and money on her.
4) texting is for pussies. don't do that crap. if she doesn't answer your phone call, you wait 1 or 2 weeks then call her again. in the mean time, go out and hit on other chics. you don't call 2-3 times in a row and then call her at work like a needy idiot. women hate that shit because they don't want to date a desperate guy. stop giving them a reason to dislike you.
5) your "true love"? HAHAHAHAHA you make me laugh which is why i love to response to this lame post of yours. you have known her only for a few weeks, you probably haven't gotten into her pants yet. and you got played by her, apparently. but you say you have a special place for her in your heart? is this the first girl you have ever dated? HAHAHA you are killing me Larry. here is the rule for ALL men when it comes to "true love" if there is even such a thing: don't even think about uttering the word love until you have lived with the girl for 6 months. YEP! SIX MONTHS, that's how long it would take to see the girl for who she really is. men see a hot woman and our tesrosterone shoots up the roof so most of the time we'll think that's "love" but in fact that's just your natural desires to mate with her.
6) but your biggest mistake is falling for a VK girl, even worse, a single VK mom. you never want to fall in love with VK girls because the moment they know you have feelings for them, they'll start taking advantage of you financially, IMMEDIATELY. as mentioned numerous times in my guides, VK girls are only good for sex and nothing else, regardless of how good the sex is. the moment you think you have developed feelings for a VK girl you bang her for the last time, just for for some memory hehe, then you head for that door, you run and never look back. they are not marriage materials. you only use them for one night stands, booty calls, and hit-n-runs. marry a VN girl if you want a REAL wife, but if think you are all that and you can afford to burn some money then fine, go all the way and get a White girl. but VK girls have ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO OFFER YOU in compared to White girls and VN girls."
Monday, March 29, 2010
WHY MEN SHOULD STAY AWAY FROM SINGLE MOMS
NEVER touch single moms. the fact that they are single moms speak volumes about their ability to be a good wife, or lack thereof. if a woman is a single mom, it's usually one of these situations:
a) like most VK girls, she married her ex-husband for money then filed for divorce after a few years, taking half of his money. and now she's looking for the next sucker to victimize (YOU). she will NO DOUBT do this to you, as soon as she finds someone who makes more money. when you marry or even spend your money on these women, you are betraying your fellow men because if no one dates or marries single moms, a lot of them would not have filed for divorced. they file for divorce so they can be free to find the next sucker and get half of his money, if there are no suckers waiting to date/marry them, they'll definitely think twice about filing for a divorce. by dating/marrying single moms, you are helping, encouraging the gold-miners to leave their husbands.
b) she is dumb slut and got knocked up by players as early as they were in high school . these girls are really dumb and trashy and you don't want to marry. plus, the father(s) of her kid(s) are probably dead beats so that means no child support from them. in other words, YOU will be paying for her kids' living expenses until they are 18. great huh?
c) she married the wrong guy. getting married was the biggest decision she has ever made in her life and she chose the wrong guy. she changed her mind after the wedding. what makes you think she will choose the right guy this time?
d) her husband left her because she cheated on him, she nagged too much, she whined non-stop, she complained about everything, nothing could ever please her, she's a bitch. whatever the reason is, you don't want to be her next victim.
but there is more. if you have interactions with her kids, she can later sue you in civil courts for child support, even when you don't marry her and you are not the biological father of her kids. search the net for many court cases like these if you don't believe me. if you act like a "father figure" to her kids for a period of time, (such as buying them gifts, sending them post cards, taking them out to dinner, etc.), and their biological father cannot pay for child support for some reason, (in prison, dead, unemployed, etc.), the judge can order you to pay for child support until the kids turn 18. under the U.S court system, the kids come first, then her, then her pets and then you.
when you date with single moms, you are playing with fire. these women have a PROVEN records of being losers/gold-diggers and you don't want to have anything to do with these.
when it comes to single moms, bang them once or twice then RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN.
a) like most VK girls, she married her ex-husband for money then filed for divorce after a few years, taking half of his money. and now she's looking for the next sucker to victimize (YOU). she will NO DOUBT do this to you, as soon as she finds someone who makes more money. when you marry or even spend your money on these women, you are betraying your fellow men because if no one dates or marries single moms, a lot of them would not have filed for divorced. they file for divorce so they can be free to find the next sucker and get half of his money, if there are no suckers waiting to date/marry them, they'll definitely think twice about filing for a divorce. by dating/marrying single moms, you are helping, encouraging the gold-miners to leave their husbands.
b) she is dumb slut and got knocked up by players as early as they were in high school . these girls are really dumb and trashy and you don't want to marry. plus, the father(s) of her kid(s) are probably dead beats so that means no child support from them. in other words, YOU will be paying for her kids' living expenses until they are 18. great huh?
c) she married the wrong guy. getting married was the biggest decision she has ever made in her life and she chose the wrong guy. she changed her mind after the wedding. what makes you think she will choose the right guy this time?
d) her husband left her because she cheated on him, she nagged too much, she whined non-stop, she complained about everything, nothing could ever please her, she's a bitch. whatever the reason is, you don't want to be her next victim.
but there is more. if you have interactions with her kids, she can later sue you in civil courts for child support, even when you don't marry her and you are not the biological father of her kids. search the net for many court cases like these if you don't believe me. if you act like a "father figure" to her kids for a period of time, (such as buying them gifts, sending them post cards, taking them out to dinner, etc.), and their biological father cannot pay for child support for some reason, (in prison, dead, unemployed, etc.), the judge can order you to pay for child support until the kids turn 18. under the U.S court system, the kids come first, then her, then her pets and then you.
when you date with single moms, you are playing with fire. these women have a PROVEN records of being losers/gold-diggers and you don't want to have anything to do with these.
when it comes to single moms, bang them once or twice then RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN.
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